Good question! Actually this is a good post for SA and anything other kind of mental disorder, really..... Accept it as part of your personality/lot in life, or try to find a way to "cure" it?
My answer would be..... If it is indeed a "disorder", why should you accept it if there is hope of being free of it, or at least diminishing its effect on you? I don't think ANYONE with a disorder of this kind should just "accept" it as their fate because there could be so much potential and freedom around the corner.
That being said, while it is still a great hindrance to you I definitely think you should practice acceptance of the state you are currently in, and work with it and be kind to yourself. Easier said than done, trust me I know.