^ I just refuse to share.
If someone feels I'm 'too much' or 'not enough' for them, they can go find someone else (or a few someone elses) to take their clothes off with.
haha
Of course-- whatever everyone else does is hardly my business. If they think they should have more than one partner-- go for it.
I'm just not into the idea at all.
One of the only things I may have any confidence in = I am way worth it to be committed to completely.
Edit: I interpret "more than one lover at a time" to mean more than one over the same period of time, not more than one at the SAME time. J
If one person is not enough for you, then you just seem really needy to me.
but do YOU want to be in the position of having to be everything to another person?
for some people that's simply too much - they either don't won't to or are not able to
in which case, is it fair of them to demand that the other person can't have some of their needs met by someone else?
Don't worry, we all have different opinions. I couldn't accept such an "open" relationship like that. Commitment would be very important for me in a relationship, because I could only be with one person. If I'd be able to be with more than one it would make me feel like I don't really want to be with that first person that much. A girlfriend would mean to me that she is the only person in the whole world I want to be with, and I would love that she felt the same.Hm... I just have a hard time looking at it like that, I suppose.
It doesn't make sense to me.
Hm... I just have a hard time looking at it like that, I suppose.
It doesn't make sense to me.
Hm... I just have a hard time looking at it like that, I suppose.
It doesn't make sense to me.
Well, we all have our own feelings and our own way to see things, it doesn't mean anyone is right or wrong. I understand both sides but I'll keep feeling the same, but I understand how someone would find it more interesting to do it differently.
just presenting some alternative viewpoints to the "happily ever after" scenario
Movies always tend to portray that the good guy gets the good girl at the end, and vice versa. Not always the case. In fact, hardly the case.There definitely is no "happily ever after" the way we've been led to believe.