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  1. Jura

    What happens to nerds?

    What happens to nerds (non-SA) when they leave school and go to college, and after they graduate from it? Do the high school "social castes" collapse and everyone becomes equal, or? Or do they remain socially awkward and date unattractive women and have few friends. By the time they marry, are...
  2. Jura

    So I grow the balls, and...

    ... tell this girl I like her. Her answer? "You think I don't know that? It's so obvious." She asked me a few more questions about it, and that's it, she fucks off. But seeing as she has been so nice to me in the past, how can she show such apathy now and not even... I don't know, say or do...
  3. Jura

    How do you deal with humiliation?

    Today in PE we had a beep test and I was among the first to fall out. I could have gone on for a lot longer but underestimated the clock and came late. I wasn't even panting or sweating when I ended. I humiliated myself in front of 80 people (that's 40 girls). The worst part is, the girl I like...
  4. Jura

    Public awareness of SP

    I think a massive campaign should be launched to educate people about SP. Nobody is aware that it exists even though it's the third most common mental disorder. And they're aware of much less common ones and seem to know quite a bit about them. But that is in no way helping OCD sufferers, for...
  5. Jura

    Any Canberrans here?

    Anyone from Canberra on this forum?
  6. Jura

    Reciprocated love/limerence - WHAT ARE THE ODDS?!

    What are the odds of two people just, falling in love with each other? To me it seems like next to zero, but then how do people marry and have relationships and all that? I don't know about all of you, but to me it seems nearly impossible that they would match up and accidentally love the right...
  7. Jura

    SAD and APD

    Can you explain to me the difference between Social Anxiety Disorder and Avoidant Personality Disorder? They seem to be very similar, but what are the key differences that define them?
  8. Jura

    Motivation

    Hello people. The most common advice you get for overcoming shyness is by starting slow and gradually become more and more confident in social situations. However, this doesn't work for me, as I always slip back into my old state. Even if I manage to get quite far, there's nothing to keep me...
  9. Jura

    How to find out what the opposite sex thinks

    I'm new, so I might've picked the wrong subforum to post this in, but anyway: How do you know if a person is attracted to you or not? They often say things like pointing their feet at you, leaning forward, mirroring etc. But nearly all girls do that with me. The few that do not I subconciously...
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