Oh, hello : )
Thanks for the friend request, never expected to get one so soon, specially from a scandinavian ( I must confess I've always been fascinated by Scandinavia, such a beautiful, peaceful a developed region).
I know this may not mean much coming from a random stranger, but I wish you the best of luck with your party/thing, and with your social problem in general, I think around here we all know how difficult it can be to face our fears.
I hope you have a great day : )