NatRad
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As some of you may know, ive had a few posts on how bad my life and marrage was. dealing with 10 years of ocd crap, working ufll time, cleaning full time, not sleeping and the last 2.5 years raising a beautiful daughter, while this thing just slept all day neglected everybody etc.
4 months ago i busted my shoulder, so have been in a lto of pain and unable to do much, rotator cuff tear and impingement.
she flipped out totally from this, but the last year has been horrid with her mental state, more things are coming out, delusional things.
last week i walked in on her naked with another guy on a webcam, after confronting her she had been having an affair for 3 months behind my back. she had asked me to get some emergency leave from work so she could go away and have some alone time to get her self, she told me, she was planning on running away with him.
i told her she had to make a choice, 10 years of marrage, and a 2 year old daughter, not to mention the house, or this 10 year younger freaky looking dickhead on facebook. she chose him, rang him up and he said no and hung up on her.
the next day she called her piss weak brother to come to the house, got their at 5am, i had my daughter in my arms, and they ripped her from me, my weak arm couldnt stop them, they put her in a car with me desperatly trying to stop them, the piss weak brother tried to threaten me, before they locked them selves in teh car and tried to drive off, with me screaming for them to stop and standin ginfront of htem, so they called the police on me.
it took me 36 hours, to get a solicitor, get a 30 page affidavid and get an expartate order from family law court to get her back, the ex is just not a fit mother and cant even look after her self.
then today i get some mail in im still on he rcarers list, so i get a copy of everything, she applied for the centrelink single mothers pention a week before she split. so she had planned this all along.
so im now a single dad, i had known i needed to get out of this relationship for years, and its taken this for me to actually do it.
do i hate her or should i hate her mental illness, shes not the same person anymore and never will be.
4 months ago i busted my shoulder, so have been in a lto of pain and unable to do much, rotator cuff tear and impingement.
she flipped out totally from this, but the last year has been horrid with her mental state, more things are coming out, delusional things.
last week i walked in on her naked with another guy on a webcam, after confronting her she had been having an affair for 3 months behind my back. she had asked me to get some emergency leave from work so she could go away and have some alone time to get her self, she told me, she was planning on running away with him.
i told her she had to make a choice, 10 years of marrage, and a 2 year old daughter, not to mention the house, or this 10 year younger freaky looking dickhead on facebook. she chose him, rang him up and he said no and hung up on her.
the next day she called her piss weak brother to come to the house, got their at 5am, i had my daughter in my arms, and they ripped her from me, my weak arm couldnt stop them, they put her in a car with me desperatly trying to stop them, the piss weak brother tried to threaten me, before they locked them selves in teh car and tried to drive off, with me screaming for them to stop and standin ginfront of htem, so they called the police on me.
it took me 36 hours, to get a solicitor, get a 30 page affidavid and get an expartate order from family law court to get her back, the ex is just not a fit mother and cant even look after her self.
then today i get some mail in im still on he rcarers list, so i get a copy of everything, she applied for the centrelink single mothers pention a week before she split. so she had planned this all along.
so im now a single dad, i had known i needed to get out of this relationship for years, and its taken this for me to actually do it.
do i hate her or should i hate her mental illness, shes not the same person anymore and never will be.