2 of my friends married guys they met on vacation (internationally, in different countries) and then they were long-distance for a while, writing letters, visiting once in a while and then mini vacations again I think (they were still studying when they met those guys), then met up again and stayed together... (when they finished studies) they are still together, happily it seems...?
Another friend had long-distance bfs. Said she preferred it that way too, lol. (One of them was a temperamental artist 'not so easy to live with' lol) She worked a few months (or a year or so), then travelled a few months (or weeks, if she had a more steady job).. Sometimes they travelled together, maybe for vacations...
They did meet up in RL first.. And met up in RL later too...
Apparently the problems can be costs involved (travels, phone.. - easier nowadays with Skype/internet) and some other things too...
Some people who met up online first or via common friends or even in RL did 'jump into things too quickly', which usually didn't end so well... 2 friends and some people I've known online had not-so-great experience... Yeah, there can be a factor of not knowing the other well and just projecting your own ideals onto them...
If it's international there can also be paperwork, yikes...
So I think it's important to take it slowly and get to know the person well (not just the good sides) and see how compatible you both are etc. Travel because you want to travel/see relatives or other friends, explore world, not 'just' for that person....
They were enthusiastic about travelling and those countries to start with, one had relatives there... So it wasn't 'just' visiting 'that guy'... It was also partly an 'adventure' and cultural experience etc.
I don't think a lot of people have met here.. (?) Where did you get that impression from?
Or did you mean internet in general?
I haven't really been in a long-distance thing (what counts as 'long-distance?' lol) and don't particularly intend to, depends on the person I guess... (and partly on finances and/or other resources and ingenuity/creativity of either/both...)
Pinata, sounds like you'll likely meet someone better/more compatible!!
I'm kinda weary of the webcam too, it's good to be careful... others can record stuff from webcam and it could potentially end up god knows where, so some smarts are necessary!!
A friend or someone who understands will be okay with you not being on cam too, maybe just typing/audio even if they are on the cam (if they wish to be).