why don't women like me

hmm... well I personally find people who are too self assured to be less attractive than people who have some insecurities and flaws. Too much self assurance is boring and can lack depth. I'm sure there are other women who feel that way. If that helps. and if your not brad pitt dont worry about it. women are not as shallow as most men think and believe it or not, look wise, alot of women prefer the javier bardems of the world (people with imperfect interesting features) to poster boy carbon copies.
You should get out more even though it may be difficult because as someone else said its hard I mean someone isnt going to magically appear at your door realisticly speaking. Then again I believe in fate but you've got to work with it a little bit man. Everyones got someone to love out there just waiting to be found. So dont ever lose hope. I think the main thing is to just be yourself always. someone was saying no one is going to want to be around you b/c you do nothing but stay home or whatever well I disagree you cant help the way you feel. Maybe you prefer talking or watching movies to going out. Again not every woman is a social butterfly or repulsed by people who arent extremely social. What are you suppose to do pretend everything is all la dee dah and then get to know someone and then they find out you are different from what you pretended to be. Just embrace and express all that you are even the parts you dont like. Honesty is key.Good luck :wink:

The way I find people I want to spend time with are during activities and by chatting with them during said activities perhaps. Common interests (in each other too?). That way it's casual and not scrutinized... chatting in a dating scene seems like there would be some expectations and requirements...

It just happens... Demanding for it to happen seems a little awkward, don't you think?