What was the last conversation you've had?

JosephG

Well-known member
Who with, what did you talk about, how long did it last and what thoughts were going through your mind as you had the conversation?
Guess I'll go first...
Mine was with my best friend on the phone for about 20 minutes. We were talking about how another one of my friends nearly got caught by his parents having a gay guy over at his place. (His parents don't know he's gay and he was worried about getting caught)
I kept worrying throughout the conversation that it wasn't going to last long or it wasn't fulfilling enough for the both of us or it didn't live up to a proper conversation. But for a conversation attempt it went quite well.
I think I need to build my confidence up with face to face communication....
 

9407

Well-known member
My mom last night. We talked about a lot of random things like children of pornstars, stupid people, etc. I can't even remember the last time I've had an actual conversation with someone other than a family member in person.
 

rileyrose

Member
I had a conversation with my father two days ago. He called me to ask how I was doing, and I gave him the standard answer "I´m ok". I could hear from his voice that this was not the correct answer. I should have answered "I´m good, thank you, how are you?". Next he starts telling me - again - about his short episodes of panic attacks (40 yrs ago) and depression (10 yrs ago). And he goes on telling me how he managed to overcome mental illness: by working hard. During the conversation I feel my worthlessness increasing exponentially. I barely manage not to start crying. But I know this is my disorder speaking, and my father just doesn´t know how to express himself to a socially anxious person like me. He just wants me to get well.
 
My brother. He was talking about Pokémon. Wanted to check if I know all the names, Haha I used to be a pokéfan, when I was a child, so I'm not bad... ;)
But still, there are plenty of new pokécreations.. haha ::p:
 

Minty

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My older sister. We were talking about different languages and it lasted about ten, fifteen minutes. I was concentrating on how to word my thoughts while playing WoW.
 

Snowdrop

Well-known member
I was talking with a group of friends whom I haven't known for a long time. We had just come back from a night of clubbing for a friend's birthday. They were talking/gossiping about some people at the party, how the girl was acting like a sl*t etc. and about relationships etc. Me, knowing hardly anything about such topics due to lack of own experience felt inadequate and small, like they didn't care much about me since I was so quiet throughout the conversation.
Going through my mind, were the thoughts that they are all thinking I'm so innocent, and probably pretty weird because they assumed I don't have any experience. I felt like I could have disappeared and they would not have noticed or cared much.
Of course, this was probably 99% a hyper exaggeration of the situation due to my anxiety and depression...
 

Danfalc

Banned

I doubt your friends are experts In relationships and stuff,No one really is. So remember your opinions are no less valid than anyone else's. And It's not a bad thing that your less experience in some of these matters.

Also seeing how they were the ones being well bitchy about that other girl, them thinking you were Immature would be like the pot calling the kettle..Though I doubt they thought that anyway. Hope you had a good night.

Anyway last person I spoke to was My Mum on the phone. Just about doctors appointments and plans for Christmas.
 
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