what style do you prefer... tomboy or girly

Johno

Johno

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khasahara said:
wow. part of the reason why i have social anxiety is because of people like you, johno.

flowergirlie, i sincerely think you can rock both looks! i agree with just about everyone here -- you should wear whatever you feel like, whenever the mood strikes. <3
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Thank you... Oh, and just out of interest... What did I say that was so bad???
 
ありがとう

ありがとう

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You look great both, but if you want a specific answer, I like the tomboy look more.

I'm the same, I tend to switch styles most of the time, but recently stuck with the girly look cause I can't be bothered having two wardrobes lol.
 
Johno

Johno

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NathanielWingatePeaslee said:
She's pretty, but her head problems are quite real. She's very insecure about her appearance and a bit obsessed with it. For you to declare that she's wasting our time is pretty messed up.

She's a nice girl, you know. What does it hurt you if she makes another thread about how she looks? You don't have the right to decide what people should or shouldn't post about here.
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We all agree that she is pretty....... Can we please leave it at that..... I answered her question... I like the Tom Boy look... Ok.. Now let's move on...... In all honesty I think this young lady is milking you for sympathy votes..... You are looking rather gullible at the moment... Sad to say it, but you guys need to get out a little more... Period....No one in my experience writes a post like that without lot's of confidence...
 
mrb

mrb

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Johno said:
Oh come on !!! Please spare me your rubbish.... This young lady is wasting our time... She is looking for a modelling contract or something.. May I suggest you tube.... Can she sing?? We prefer the Tom boy look.. Now can some body talk to me about a real issue??? Please?????
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ok can you leap frog over 500 people without your arms aching :rolleyes:
 
Pookah

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I don't think you realize things exist like body dysmorphic disorder and self image distortion. People can say you are pretty but that doesn't mean you will believe it.
 
mrb

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Pookah said:
I don't think you realize things exist like body dysmorphic disorder and self image distortion. People can say you are pretty but that doesn't mean you will believe it.
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its true take the hot lady above :eek: give her a compliment and shes ready to kill you ::p:
 
Johno

Johno

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Pookah said:
I don't think you realize things exist like body dysmorphic disorder and self image distortion. People can say you are pretty but that doesn't mean you will believe it.
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Well that doesn't apply to you... Now you are pretty... i would choose you any second, minute, hour, day, of the week .....Just being honest
 
Pookah

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Johno said:
Well that doesn't apply to you... Now you are pretty... i would choose you any second, minute, hour, day, of the week .....Just being honest
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Haha I'm not a pokemon. Pookah Pook!


I think the OP looks great either way. Why should we be tied down to one style? Where whatever you are in the mood to wear. It is fun to dress up even as something completely different like for Halloween or a masquerade too.
 
Fear of people

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Flowergirlie said:
Hi,

i'm very confused .... i like to dress cool.. but also to dress girly.... im not sure what people find more attractive.
A tomboy girl with a cool shirt or a girly girl who wears dresses...

please let me know what u like better xD

here are my 2 pictures.....


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tomboy look

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girly look


greetz, me
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You look nice in either.
 
CosmicNeurotica

CosmicNeurotica

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I want to say girly look. But when I look again, you're smiling in the tomboy look, so that automatically starts to become more attractive.
 
KiaKaha

KiaKaha

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I like the first pic better, you look laid back, cool and just a spunky chick to talk too. Thats just my personal preference though, Girly girls often look beautiful but there is something about a girl in a t shirt and jeans that just does it for me. One of the most fun and nicest girls I had the pleasure of dating looked like a female version of kurt cobain... am I weird? Yeah..probably...

Btw, some women know they are beautiful, but most often they don't> I knew a girl who was absolutely gorgeous but seriously believed she was ugly. I couldn't get my head around it at the time (I was 15 I think) Its only later that I realized that how you hold yourself in your minds eye, and how others percieve you is often vastly contrasted.
 
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Falkor

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Felgen said:
People who know that they are pretty can still be self-conscious about their appearance.
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I´m really self concious about my appearance, because I don´t chose a good style to wear yet. People get very confused when they see a cool tomboy chick wearing men´s shirts, and the next day they see a girl in a dress. I´m afraid that people only want one side of me. And that makes me anxious.

And i´m afraid people will think I look to much guyish when I dress like a tomboy, In the past i had short hair and weared baggy jeans and men shirts, people bullied me alot. And when i weared a dress or a skirt boys were nice to me... Like whaaat?! But i like girls.. So maybe they like this style. But i'm not sure. My mom says I look the best in girly clothes.
 
lyricalliaisons

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Flowergirlie said:
I´m really self concious about my appearance, because I don´t chose a good style to wear yet. People get very confused when they see a cool tomboy chick wearing men´s shirts, and the next day they see a girl in a dress. I´m afraid that people only want one side of me. And that makes me anxious.

And i´m afraid people will think I look to much guyish when I dress like a tomboy, In the past i had short hair and weared baggy jeans and men shirts, people bullied me alot. And when i weared a dress or a skirt boys were nice to me... Like whaaat?! But i like girls.. So maybe they like this style. But i'm not sure. My mom says I look the best in girly clothes.
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You should wear whatever clothes you like the best & whatever you think you look the best in. If you're comfortable with what you're wearing, that may make you feel more comfortable with yourself & other people will notice that. It shouldn't matter whether other people like what you're wearing or not, it should only matter if you do.
 
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lyricalliaisons said:
You should wear whatever clothes you like the best & whatever you think you look the best in. If you're comfortable with what you're wearing, that may make you feel more comfortable with yourself & other people will notice that. It shouldn't matter whether other people like what you're wearing or not, it should only matter if you do.
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Absolutely! You hit the nail squarely on the head.
 
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