What do you think about love?
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planemo
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Not quite sure, what exactly is meant by "love", as it is quite an ambiguous word, I think. Maybe everyone's love is different. To me my only true love, came and went, as do most of life's good things. My shyness and severe OCD, made sure I would never ever tell her how I felt about her. The funny thing is I think she liked me backed, or so I assume. I could never find out for sure, coz I was so terrified of talking to her. We did not study the same thing, so I could only catch a glimpse of her, every once in a while. Sometimes I would drag myself to Uni, just in the hope of seeing her, even if it was just a glimpse. Is that love? Maybe to some, probably not for most. But my feelings did go deeper than that, so I suppose you could say it was love. She smiled at me once, and I will never forget that moment. I think if she did at all like me, it probably was the fact that my shyness and insecurity did not make me less of a person to her, but it may have been the very thing which made her notice me in the first place. I guess I'll never know though.:
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mrb
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im not dependant on my gf shes not dependant on me , we both love each others company but were both very independant people , but having said that i have to behave cos shes a black belt in karate , and a karate chop to the throught followed by a chop to the face followed by a side kick to the face followed by a punch to the ribs keeps me in line and i do need to be kept in line sometimes
and i do need to be kept in line sometimes Aru_Sarutobi
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Aru_Sarutobi
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im not dependant on my gf shes not dependant on me , we both love each others company but were both very independant people , but having said that i have to behave cos shes a black belt in karate , and a karate chop to the throught followed by a chop to the face followed by a side kick to the face followed by a punch to the ribs keeps me in line
LOL be careful
Corsendonk
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heheh good one
mysissucks
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I think love is called "let's make a deal". It's all about setting up boundaries and speaking up for what you want and what you won't tolerate. Give and take is also pretty important. Personally, instant chemistry/attraction is a big red flag. True feelings and care come from knowing someone over a long period of time. And for most people it takes years to learn what you want and need from a relationship.
TheManWhoUpholdsHonour
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Sir,or madam, I've a clear understanding of love as of my pondering.I recognise love as the want and beleif that whoever your in love with would make a suitable mother/father.I've also catorgorized lust.It is the beleif and or want that YOU are the suitable mother/father.Dying for what you love is never worth it no matter what.Love is a god given right.
evil feline space cadet
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You know its love when you dream of slitting their throat...
Aru_Sarutobi
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Madam, or Emily is fine.
I'm not sure what you are saying though. Do you mean a mother/father to you, or a good mother/father to any children you may have?
I believing dying for something you love is worth it.
sara1975
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Dear sir/madam
love is not about picking a partner because you believe them to be a suitable father/mother well not in my case anyway, i do not have children and i wouldn't plan on having them either as i do not believe that i would be good enough mother having SA and my husband has is own mental problems that would mean he would not be able to be a good enough father so we have chosen not to have children together.A lot of couples decide not to have children so your pondering is not always correct.
