What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

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this_portrait

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I dream of a guy with qualities that can't possibly exist in any guy. These qualities are as follows::

-He has dark hair with eyes the color of a pale, pale blue, almost grey.
-He has a pretty face.
-He isn't that much taller than me.
-He isn't that much older or younger than me.
-He's artistic in every sense of the word, both visually and in written word (such as poetry).
-He doesn't necessarily have SAD, but he has some form of a personality disorder that he does not take medication for.
-He is at the same education level as me, and puts much effort into his studies so he can be successful in the coming years.
-He does not smoke, drink, or do drugs.
-He is accepting of me, and everything I believe in.
-He takes care of himself, internally and externally.
-He is not like all the rest of these guys who seem to feel 'inferior' to me because I supposedly 'look too good for them.'

Yup, this probably makes me sound shallow, but it's what I would rather have.
 
meatcake

meatcake

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a sweet nature,
a fun sense of humor,
mildly adventurous,
likes to read,
likes talking about psychological things,
somewhere in the middle in looks.

but geez, who am i kidding, i'm no prize, lol.
 
Satine

Satine

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How annoying. I made a post very similar to this and got only a handful of responses; you do it and get dozens.
 
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AlleyCat

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honest and trustworthy
respectable
someone I can talk to
someone who can make me laugh and doesn't mind my quirky sense of humor ::p:
sweet and caring, I like guys that still open doors for women... the gentlemanly types, but it would be great if he had a spontaneous, playful side too ;)
 
Noca

Noca

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a) they look decent or better
b) they arent a bitch or an asshole
c) they like my humor
d) they are not taller nor do they weigh more than me
 
iamthenra

iamthenra

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She would have to be born a "female" with all the proper female parts still intact....
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Blue Teardrops

Blue Teardrops

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LoL@ iamthenra
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I like a guy that has a sense of humor, respects women, and is faithful. Oh, and good hygiene and clean teeth is a must. I have a pet peeve about dirty teeth and smelly armpits.

and....must laugh at my idiotic jokes, 'cause I'm the world's worst joke teller.
 
iamthenra

iamthenra

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Blue Teardrops said:
LoL@ iamthenra
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Awwww...geee thanks! I succeeded in making someone laugh! That was my goal!

In all seriousness... I'm just looking for a gal that is kind, caring, sincere, genuine, fiscally responsible, loves nature, loves country living, hiking, camping, boating, sci fi movies especially LOTR...
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overcome.

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i'm looking for a girl that for me, makes me very happy obviously. being open minded is important, understanding of course to anxiety/agoraphobia problems that i have. i'd have to find her attractive, but i mean, everyones view of attractive is different. the sort of girl who's quite shy and keeps herself to herself, shy and kind, but yet opens up to me, and would have that trust bond. confident, yet not too forward and respectful.

it sounds kind of silly, but i'd love to meet somebody with similar problems perhaps, that way we can understand eachother, and possibly change eachothers lives. at the same time, helping eachother overcome everything life throws at us. it's something like that, that could provide true love. everybody can dream, right?
 
Myself

Myself

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Well, I personally dig personality a LOT more than looks, but looks still feel important to me, although I'd never prioritize looks over personality.

This is what I dig, all-in-all, in a guy (I'm a straight girl):

Looks:

* Short hair (The Rock's kinda hair)
* Blue or hazel eyes
* Tall enough
* Nice build (not too skinny, not fat)
* Abs and Six Pack's (not a neccesity though)
* Facial hair (except mustaches), but again, not a neccesity.
* Pelvic bones (V-bone), but this isn't a neccesity, it's another "it'd be nice" feature.

Personality:

* Good sense of humour, isn't too serious, and enjoys life for what it is.
* Optimistic
* Always wanting to do stuff
* Not a pervert that talks about sex 24/7 and would pressure me into having sex or blowing him exactly, but open to do sexual things with me. ;D
* Open-mindedness (not racist or homophobic, etc)
* Smart.

Of course, these are all the things I dig, and if a guy I knew had every single one of these qualities, he'd be perfect for me, but the guy I have a crush on has a nice mixture of these, personality and looks-wise.
 
2Crowded

2Crowded

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Trustworthy..cute....with a good personality....understanding..cares about how i feel & is incapable of ever hurting me because she loves me with everything she has.....show's me she loves me each day with words & touch...isent selfish...exept for when it comes to getting the most time she can being wrapped up in my arms....one who dosent flirt with other guys..cause she considers that another form of cheating when she's in a realationship.
 
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