man on the hill
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does anyone else feel like they are watching their life fly by withought even realizing it? I dont really want to go into any detail about myself....just a 24/m from the hills of ky. been somewhat shy and backwards all my life,.......but this year something has changed in me cause now ive turned into a very "avoidant" person. I still live at home, have a nice job, in most people's eyes they would say im very lucky and have a good life, and I think I do too......but what nobody knows is how much trouble I have with myself and being a social person and having any type of social life. ive never even had a girl friend....not one, in my life. for the past couple years, all I basically do is go to work monday through friday, then just hang around the house mostly on the weekends, never go out and have "fun" like most regular people my age. I love my job, what I do and where I work, sometimes I feel happier there than at home. but the past couple months I have been awfull about avoiding almost any and all kinds of social activity. my two brothers try to get me to go out and have fun with em all the time but I never do and they always ask why I never go anywhere.....and I aways just kind of shrug and say "I dont know", honestly I dont want to tell them or anybody that I know for that matter. I have such low self esteem and self confidence that I feel like I dont even deserve to hang out with em, and in the very few times I do, I honestly dont even have fun when im out. realistically though there is nothing holding me back from going out and having a more social life, but in my head it feels like Im locked behind giant gates and no matter how much I try I cant squeeze through em. but anyways enough on all that. my reason for this thread is that its just that its getting toward the new year and all and I was just thinking of all the potentially good times this year that I forced myself to "skip out" on. just seems like this year has flew by so fast, and ive allmost wasted it all it feels like. I know ive got to change myself soon or my whole life is gonna fly by.