verbal abuse & being an only child

is anyone else verbally abuse by thier mother/father and an only child ? how do you cope with hurtful words from your mother/father ? do you think the parent will ever stop ? & how do you deal with being an only child and having SA .

mines seems to be gettin worst everday i am in the house because my mother works from the afternoon until late night . and i am alone alot

quietgirl21 said:

is anyone else verbally abuse by thier mother/father and an only child ? how do you cope with hurtful words from your mother/father ? do you think the parent will ever stop ? & how do you deal with being an only child and having SA .

mines seems to be gettin worst everday i am in the house because my mother works from the afternoon until late night . and i am alone alot

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Yea , you need to find something to do, go to a bookstore, a grocery store, Starbucks, something where you can maybe communicate a little bit to moderate. This way you can improve a little bit
Steve

Yes, I was verbally and physically abused as a child and I never forgot it either. Although it's obviously no excuse, my mom was going through rough times. Being a single mother supporting two kids (me and my brother) on a grocery store salary, she was mad at herself for not making better choices in life and took it out on me and sometimes my older brother. We were dirt poor, and even now we're still barely above the poverty line and that's only because my brother has a full time job too.

ive gone through the same thing my whole life too..im not really an only child,i have a brother but his dad took him away after i was born..i havnt figured out how to deal with it yet..though my mother died last year so its gotten a bit better,i just avoid people all together..but i hope you have luck in figuring this out ^_^

When I moved away from her I made the right choice for my life and my mental health. I also got to regard her from an adult's point of view and begun to see what a joke of a human being she is. My partner also agrees with me and offers a perspective to reinforce my new found knowledge.

You will find your own person when you grow older, and especially if you have your own children. But you might be able to grow away and independent from her influence sooner than that.

Being an only child doesn't make much of a difference. Imagine having a horrible abusive mum with a horrible abusive sibling doing her dirty work..

Is there an abuse help line you can call?

Yes, I was verbally and physically abused as a child and to pour salt on open wounds, I was bullied and assaulted and ostracized by my peers.I still am to this day. I never forgot it either. I'm rejected by women constantly when i try to reach out to them. I've been told i'm not attractive. I've been told i will die a virgin. My siblings and kinfolk have turned their backs on me. Women use me. I AM angry and bitter. I'm deeply and severely depressed. I cant afford to see anyone. I have no insurance. I'm stuck in a rat race and i cant escape. I cant take anymore. I have reached my breaking point.