Unable to have sex

friend807

friend807

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iam 22 old man, iam still virgin, my problem is i want have sex but afraid
i feel that i do something wrong, something disgrace and shame
my early childhood culture control me, i grow up with a restrict family which is sex is permitted jst in married ,but now iam educated and open mind, my mind tells me to have sex bt my emotions prevent me and keep me nervous
so what is the best attitude should i do
 
bulldog21083

bulldog21083

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I fear I might be the same way, I'm 25 and still a virgin. I do have a girlfriend (we've only been together about 3 weeks). So the other night we were making out for awhile. Eventually she took my pants off (after she took her shirt off) and starting rubbing me down there. I always figured that would make me hard pretty much instantly, but it didn't. After about 5 minutes I still couldn't get hard. After a bit she asked me if I wanted a b.j. Even that couldn't get me hard and after a few minutes she stopped. So now I fear I have some kind of mental block and am unable to get hard even though other times I have no problems.
 
Ventrilo

Ventrilo

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ya i can't have sex either. I mean i could definitely perform i'm just too nervous to be around a girl in a non-sexual way, in that situation i would likely have a heart attack.
 
CK23

CK23

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I'd love to have sex but i'll be soo devoted to the girl i'd turn into candle wax before she lays into me.... :( :oops:
 
Hylke

Hylke

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Tip: get drunk with her.
a) you will not be anxious
b) she will want it badly
c) you will have an excuse if you don't do great because it is your first time

Oh alcohol, one of the greatest inventions of mankind ;)
 
Kien

Kien

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I heard drunkiness and sex are not recommended.

seekeroftruth said:
You guys actually believe in sex? That stuff only happens in the movies.
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Girls returning your feelings for her is something that only happens in movies as well.
 
WastedPotential

WastedPotential

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Be blunt. Tell her "I'm not the greatest at sex", or if you're too ashamed to say that (don't be), just tell her you want to take it easy and let her ride on top - that's probably the easiest position.

Seriously, don't stress over it. The more you think about it the crazier you'll get.
 
Morgan01

Morgan01

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that sounds awful.
well first of all no one expects you to be great your first time. Just be honest with the girl and you will probably feel more relaxed just telling her how you feel
 
kyle

kyle

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friend807 said:
iam 22 old man, iam still virgin, my problem is i want have sex but afraid
i feel that i do something wrong, something disgrace and shame
my early childhood culture control me, i grow up with a restrict family which is sex is permitted jst in married ,but now iam educated and open mind, my mind tells me to have sex bt my emotions prevent me and keep me nervous
so what is the best attitude should i do
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no problem.

just pop on the wang chung, and bedtime for bonzo baaaaaby! ::p:
 
Thelema

Thelema

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Had the chance, but couldn't just say "lets have sex" which was probably all I had to say or do. I felt like a guy dying of dehydration in the desert being offered a drink and not being able to drink
 
freestylemonster

freestylemonster

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man just drink some beer first the next time! Seriously!!! It's the ULTIMATE relaxant. Then just start making out and see where it takes you :)
 
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