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Iam just not somebody that other people like. It's not that I am evil - I think I am just boring.
I have not one friend and I haven't had a friend for perhaps 15 years.
Sometimes I am so astonished at the way I am ignored - even by members of my own family, that I have honestly considered the fact that I may not really be here.
does anybody else feel like this?
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Hell yeah. I don't have anything to say to make you feel better, but you're not alone in feeling like this.
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you know when you THINK you're boring it usually doesn't mean you ARE. i mean i've always worried about being boring and somehow like a burden to this society. i have this good friend of mine who gave me lots of advice and taught me a lot from her experiences. and i ask her if i'm a person who would be hated by everyone else.. n she told me that i am loveable which don't get me wrong ... it was sweet of her to say..but i do alot of times dont believe it. but i think everyone here can be loveable if they just totally be themselves and stick to that..

oh gosh i hope i didn't make any of u peopl sick with all that goo goo ga ga crap i just wrote.
but wutever evryone have a nice day!
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That was better than what I said. I also take into account that I seem to be surrounded by ignorant a-holes, so I don't want to be the kind of person they would like. Luckily for me.
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Yeh, I often get ignored...but I know some people feel uncomfortable around me as I come across as ignorant...really I'm being anxious. I just think people dont know how to handle us so there fore pretend we arent there instead. My brother is excellent for making me feel like lilmiss invisible. On the other hand, there are other people i know that go out of thier way to be nice to me seeing that I am looking scared to death.
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this post im reading is from 2004 and it is the same topic as now 2008!! hhmm what does that tell you my friends?
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Man guys. My heart goes out to you guys. My brother has this problem. I made an account here because of a sweating problem that I have in my hands that this blog has people who were able to cure it.

As I read your guys problems my heart truly goes out to you guys.

I gave my life to Jesus 6 years ago. Before that I was trying desperately to fill myself with the things of this world. Whether it be girls, money, drugs or whatever. I'm here to tell you those things will not bring you happiness. I tried Jesus and had a powerful experience. I no longer even cared for those things. I felt a peace and a tremendous feeling of joy.

Open up your heart and accept Christ. He'll give you what you guys are truly looking for.
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this post im reading is from 2004 and it is the same topic as now 2008!! hhmm what does that tell you my friends?
Meanwhile, in 2015

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I have a similar problem...im capable of being completely awesome and yet people never like me....so socializing is kind of depressing....sometiems i think maybe there isnt really much out there in the world for someone like me.

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Me too. They think I'm so great but so quick to leave me all alone to suffer.
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Yea sometimes I wonder why I even bother. But I try to find things to look forward to in my life. Things that I'll enjoy.
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can relate. have no friends at all. i hang out with two 3year olds girls all day. Conversation is so shallow with them. they only want things from me.
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I love the fact that you recognize the power within you of being 'completely awesome'. In my eyes, everyone is awesome in their own ways yet some people just don't get that from us. They maybe lack the depth to understand people with social anxiety, or make the effort to get to know us. I always feel sidelined in social occasions, yet I have a lot of depth pity people don't seem to want to know a bit more about me.
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can relate. have no friends at all. i hang out with two 3year olds girls all day. Conversation is so shallow with them. they only want things from me.
I often wish for less shallow conversations with people. Hate having to talk about the darn weather!! Lol.
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Hi
Iam just not somebody that other people like. It's not that I am evil - I think I am just boring.
I have not one friend and I haven't had a friend for perhaps 15 years.
Sometimes I am so astonished at the way I am ignored - even by members of my own family, that I have honestly considered the fact that I may not really be here.
does anybody else feel like this?
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I am 50 years old, and I have always been despicable. No one likes me, and no one should.
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hmmmmmmmm...

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I don't have any friends irl. People just don't seem to want to be around me...but I'm pessimistic and sad, kinda like a walking dark cloud...so, I get it.
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I feel the same way. I have just about zero friends and it's very hard for me to make any.
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I am 50 years old, and I have always been despicable. No one likes me, and no one should.
Why do you say the nobody should like you? Isn't that a choice?
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