tomorrow could be the end of me

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THE-INTROVERT

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have an appointment with the job recruitment agency at 10 am its now i cant sleep i dont want to go theyll just give me some demoralising job i really cant deal with this why is life like this no jobs no nothing and the one that have jobs look down on others i hate northern ireland so much i hate my town full of noisy people that think they know every thing about everyone when they know nothing sorry for the rant people
 
EasySkanking

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You'll be fine dude. A few years from now, you'll be thankful that you got a job (even a ****ty one) in the first place :). Progress is slow, but you can't give up. Slow progress is better than no progress :)
 
kihira

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THE-INTROVERT said:
have an appointment with the job recruitment agency at 10 am its now i cant sleep i dont want to go theyll just give me some demoralising job i really cant deal with this why is life like this no jobs no nothing and the one that have jobs look down on others i hate northern ireland so much i hate my town full of noisy people that think they know every thing about everyone when they know nothing sorry for the rant people
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You can't predict what will happen tomorrow; maybe they'll have nothing for you; maybe the give you some work you actually like.
:)
 
Ignace

Ignace

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Come to Belgium and get rich without doing anything. Every stranger from another country gets €500 a day if there's no place for him to stay. Then people wonder why we are one of the countries with the most debts and that civilians have to pay a lot more taxes ...
 
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Feathers

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THE-INTROVERT said:
have an appointment with the job recruitment agency at 10 am its now i cant sleep i dont want to go theyll just give me some demoralising job i really cant deal with this why is life like this no jobs no nothing and the one that have jobs look down on others i hate northern ireland so much i hate my town full of noisy people that think they know every thing about everyone when they know nothing sorry for the rant people
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Hey if you act really disinterested or say you are considering other options and interviewing elsewhere nobody will hire you against your will..

On the other hand, like others have said, you might really enjoy this job even if you think you won't - have you ever went somewhere and thought it would suck but it turned out better than expected?

Or at least, you can endure everything for three months or so (that was my mantra at sucky jobs..) sometimes one can endure longer too.. And meanwhile, you can earn some money, calm your parents and the agency a bit, get some experience and look around for better jobs?

Only people who have not been in your shoes may look down on others, with unemployment rising so high, everyone will have experienced it sometime in their lives... People are usually much more understanding when they experience something like that too..
 
ilmatross

ilmatross

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Ignace said:
Come to Belgium and get rich without doing anything. Every stranger from another country gets €500 a day if there's no place for him to stay. Then people wonder why we are one of the countries with the most debts and that civilians have to pay a lot more taxes ...
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brb belgium
 
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THE-INTROVERT

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its 13 weeks stuck in a community centre i was meant to do it before but i went on sick benefits to dodge it im worry tho theyll think im weird and withdrawn anyway im planning on getting drunk tonight because i need to wind down thats if i even manage you know with me i say things and when it comes to the time i dont do them
 
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Feathers

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THE-INTROVERT said:
its 13 weeks stuck in a community centre i was meant to do it before but i went on sick benefits to dodge it im worry tho theyll think im weird and withdrawn anyway im planning on getting drunk tonight because i need to wind down thats if i even manage you know with me i say things and when it comes to the time i dont do them
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Don't get drunk unless you really plan to 'screw up' then.. If there's something future maybe-employers really hate, is drunk and scruffy people.. It could also give you bad rep if you show up unkempt and such.
If you have any plans to ever get any sort of work through them, at least appear sort of average/normal-looking..

Can you relax with other activities, dunno go running or read a book or watch a film? Or get a punching sack and box? Go to the gym? Or get a guitar and bang on it and sing angry country songs?

So what, who cares what they'll think? For many 'withdrawn' people, others think they're 'calm' or 'peaceful' (!)
Or they may just think you're a little bit nervous, which is normal and to be expected..
And even if they think you're weird, they can still maybe be helpful.. There are jobs and work and awesome careers for 'weird' people too.. And some of the coolest people are 'weird'!!

I know it sucks, hang in there!!
 
RelentlessHamster

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everyone (most people at least) have to start somewhere bellow and make their way to the top, through hard-work :) if others can do it, so can you.
 
BlackPuma

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Wishful thinking man, wishful thinking. ;3

I know it sounds easier said then done, but try to get your mind of it when doing things like this. Negative prediction about upcoming events are rarely a good thing. Well, unless it regards life or death situations, in that case you want to be pessimistic a little bit.

You can do it, man. I just know you can. Just going is already a step forward..
 
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Feathers

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THE-INTROVERT said:
its 13 weeks stuck in a community centre i was meant to do it before but i went on sick benefits to dodge it im worry tho theyll think im weird and withdrawn anyway im planning on getting drunk tonight because i need to wind down thats if i even manage you know with me i say things and when it comes to the time i dont do them
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Oh lol I thought you have the appointment tomorrow.. forgot it's Saturday..

So do you have 13 weeks of 'job search club' now or something like that?

YAY for surviving the appointment anyway, I know it can be stressful!!
 
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