Today...

I saw the girl I like and her group afterschool and was wonder if I should go and I didn't; that for reason made me crazy. I just started walking with my friends, then I just suddenly snapped and smacked my friends skateboard 3 times against my head as hard as I could, then tried to act normal.


I have terrible anxiety issues...
 

BlackKids

Well-known member
Yes you should and you know it.

Worse case : She says no and it goes belly up
Best Case : Wink Wink lol

Good Luck mate
 

lithium

Well-known member
I know how you feel. I remember that happening when I would see my ex (before we started going out) with her friends and it would make me go crazy.
 
I think you shoud try too:) In my opinion if you don't try, you may end up feeling worse from not trying, than if she'd said no thanks.
 
I just realized that if I ask her out I will have benefits whether she accepts me or not, because I'm online too much because she's the only one that talks to me.
 

Love_Etc

Member
Just go to her, say "hey gorgeous" and start talking with her.. How was it in school - obviously she'll say it suck'd and make a joke out of it. And don't do this just once.
For instance, you should approach her this way on one day. Then in the next day take EVERY occassion when she sits alone to talk to her. After some time ask her out to the cinema or something.

It's easier though, if you take a part in social life like organizing different stuff cause girls are lonely and they will ask you out themselves.

Just be yourself and be unconscious and really really self-respected.
 

combat

Well-known member
Why not ask her to go somewhere or do something that you both have in common. Keep it calm and friendly, and just hang out.

Then if it goes well, do it again, and then see if she asks you to hang around together

Take it one step at a time, and see where it goes.

+1 for this. I've crashed and burned too many times trying to go directly for the date. I think hanging out keeps it low key/low pressure enough that you won't feel nearly as nervous asking her, and once you do hang out, it's not as unnervingly formal as a date.
 

Nack

Banned
It means, i envy where you stand right now. At least you have something to look forward too every time you wake up. The thrill of finding a mate :D
 
I'm not thrilled, loads of bull**** being rejected for lack of confidence, and rejection lowers my self-esteem so it's going to cycle over and over again until I end up finding a syringe and injecting roach poison into my veins..
 
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