Whoopdeedoo
Well-known member
Wheres the love? The pleasure? The joy? In this life
Can I have some of the beautiful things like that in this lifetime
For me ?
Thats what I want to know..
Whats in this for me?
I know it sounds awful ..
I feel like ive been an island ,so alone, so long
Filling the needs of others and getting little in return and now Im empty..
And theres noone around to fill me up and Im going down
And others only concern now is that their needs are not being met
To their standard to which they contribute little..
They lost their pal, wing pilot or sidekick not their FRIEND,
MOM ,sister or daughter.
Where are the people tocatch me when I fall?
When Im down & out?
I raised my son alone...
I spent 10 yrs in a 12 step program and helped people there..
Ive supported 2 friends that had loved ones that committed suicide
Because I felt so lost and alone when a life long friend of mine did that.
Ive supported friends and family through their divorse..
Im so exhausted.
I dont even want to do what I have to do for me
It takes everything inside me to keep up my things to do
Theres nothing left of me to give and how can I share myself and my time with others when Im barely keeping afloat myself
I see life going on around me and I dont feel a part of it
I get invitations to do things and go places but It just feels like work to show up for life because it feels there not much left of me
I hate feeling like this all the time
Accomplishing the few tasks I do daily
Takes it all out of me
I barely eat
I cant get restful sleep
And i always feellike i cant live up to my own standards and ideals
So Im in a constant state of catch up and keep up with daily tasks
I used to be fully functional but I dont feel like that now
And I miss my autopiolot ... The ability I used to have to take initiative
And do without doing or thinking...everything I do now requires effort and thought...Like Im fighting reality and rebelling against survival
Im angrysad disappointed and tired
I ruminate about all I wanted that I didnt get
And ruminate on the dysfunctional relationships I had
I know I need a shift in perspective
I know I need to take some kind of action to change things
But Im sick and tired of being sick and tired
And I know If Ii do what I always did
I will get what i always got
Ive pushed people out cause I feel like theres nothing left of me to give
I am tapped out
How do I stop feeling this way?
What do I have to do to stop this empty feeling from always resurfacing?
The dog needs a bath
The laundrys piling up
The plants need watering
The car needs repair
Theres dr appts to go to
The house needs cleaning
The food needs cooking
I need a shower
I gotta eat
A friend wants me to go to an art fair
Its a beautiful day out
I wish I could enjoy It
& here it sit
Overwhelmed and empty
I should go meet my friend
But whose going to do all this stuff around here
How can I enjoy a day out with her with all this stuff to be done around here
I can no longer feel balanced
Like ever
What can I do?????
Can I have some of the beautiful things like that in this lifetime
For me ?
Thats what I want to know..
Whats in this for me?
I know it sounds awful ..
I feel like ive been an island ,so alone, so long
Filling the needs of others and getting little in return and now Im empty..
And theres noone around to fill me up and Im going down
And others only concern now is that their needs are not being met
To their standard to which they contribute little..
They lost their pal, wing pilot or sidekick not their FRIEND,
MOM ,sister or daughter.
Where are the people tocatch me when I fall?
When Im down & out?
I raised my son alone...
I spent 10 yrs in a 12 step program and helped people there..
Ive supported 2 friends that had loved ones that committed suicide
Because I felt so lost and alone when a life long friend of mine did that.
Ive supported friends and family through their divorse..
Im so exhausted.
I dont even want to do what I have to do for me
It takes everything inside me to keep up my things to do
Theres nothing left of me to give and how can I share myself and my time with others when Im barely keeping afloat myself
I see life going on around me and I dont feel a part of it
I get invitations to do things and go places but It just feels like work to show up for life because it feels there not much left of me
I hate feeling like this all the time
Accomplishing the few tasks I do daily
Takes it all out of me
I barely eat
I cant get restful sleep
And i always feellike i cant live up to my own standards and ideals
So Im in a constant state of catch up and keep up with daily tasks
I used to be fully functional but I dont feel like that now
And I miss my autopiolot ... The ability I used to have to take initiative
And do without doing or thinking...everything I do now requires effort and thought...Like Im fighting reality and rebelling against survival
Im angrysad disappointed and tired
I ruminate about all I wanted that I didnt get
And ruminate on the dysfunctional relationships I had
I know I need a shift in perspective
I know I need to take some kind of action to change things
But Im sick and tired of being sick and tired
And I know If Ii do what I always did
I will get what i always got
Ive pushed people out cause I feel like theres nothing left of me to give
I am tapped out
How do I stop feeling this way?
What do I have to do to stop this empty feeling from always resurfacing?
The dog needs a bath
The laundrys piling up
The plants need watering
The car needs repair
Theres dr appts to go to
The house needs cleaning
The food needs cooking
I need a shower
I gotta eat
A friend wants me to go to an art fair
Its a beautiful day out
I wish I could enjoy It
& here it sit
Overwhelmed and empty
I should go meet my friend
But whose going to do all this stuff around here
How can I enjoy a day out with her with all this stuff to be done around here
I can no longer feel balanced
Like ever
What can I do?????