I've been wondering about that lately. Some time ago, I moved thousands of miles away to an island. When I moved, everybody was excited, telling me how they couldn't wait to visit. Well, years passed and they never did. I got a lot of, "One of these days we're going to make it out there to visit you" promises but nothing which was okay. Then, eventually, the promises to come visit me turned into questions of why I haven't come to visit them, then to subtle criticisms reminding me how long it's been since I came back 'home'. I guess they forgot all about the promises to visit me and now I was at fault. Anyway, about a year and a half ago, I went back home to visit and I thought the reception was somewhat chilly (this could be my imagination), as if they were a little angry that I'd taken so long to go back. Mind you, not one of them have ever visited me despite them taking numerous vacations elsewhere. I'm guilty as well since I too have taken vacations to other places instead of visiting them. It's just that I thought by living on a beautiful island, they would really want to come like they said they did in the beginning. So now, I'm kind of not sure what they really think. Maybe they believe I've abandoned them? Could be that I'm overthinking things but with each passing month I feel pressure to go back again. No talk from anyone anymore of coming to see me though.