DanielLewis
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I'm thinking about leaving my job because I've had some bad social problems working there. Some people there view me as an *******, some weird, and some probably just unconfident. One guy even wanted to assault me. He said "I'll kick your ***" in a non-joking way. I didn't say anything mean to him at all. I just come off as so off-putting sometimes it throws people off. It stirs them the wrong way. They think I'm an *** for not talking to them more or just weird or threatening body language. So even I made two servers cry apparently. You're probably wondering how in the hell I can manage to do all of that, even though you struggle with SA too, lol.
I can only explain my eratic behavior as a consequence of SA that's been worse because I have been very sleepless. I can't even control at times so much that eye contact freaks me out so much I give people a weird look that visibly makes them uncomfortable. And, of course, knowing all of this can make it worse as I try to control my behavior.
Despite all this, I still work there. Been there 7 months. Some people still think I'm nice and all so it's not like everyone there views me negatively. Of course though, word spreads about making servers cry and stuff. I know because one guy server told me "I don't care what they say about you, you're the man." It's a little awkward being there knowing how some people view me, but hey, everyday is a new day.
Have you been in a similar situations? What would you do? I'm thinking about leaving. Start new and fresh and a new job where people don't know me yet.
I can only explain my eratic behavior as a consequence of SA that's been worse because I have been very sleepless. I can't even control at times so much that eye contact freaks me out so much I give people a weird look that visibly makes them uncomfortable. And, of course, knowing all of this can make it worse as I try to control my behavior.
Despite all this, I still work there. Been there 7 months. Some people still think I'm nice and all so it's not like everyone there views me negatively. Of course though, word spreads about making servers cry and stuff. I know because one guy server told me "I don't care what they say about you, you're the man." It's a little awkward being there knowing how some people view me, but hey, everyday is a new day.
Have you been in a similar situations? What would you do? I'm thinking about leaving. Start new and fresh and a new job where people don't know me yet.