teruterutenshi
Member
Hi guys, I'm a very new member but find that this seems like a good place to talk with people and look for advice. I have a crush on a co-worker, and from what I see and other people told me, he is socially awkward and very shy. When people talk to him he's very friendly and nice but rarely initiates the conversations.Later on we started to have small talks and found out we both love football. Since then I sometimes stopped by his desk to say hi and asked how he's doing. I have tried to become his friend but then he became really nervous and uncomfortable when talking to me. He acts normal around other people, including ladies, but when I start talking to him he turns weird (avoid eye contact, stumble, turn hot and cold). Couple days ago I asked him if he could go watch a baseball game with me since he loves baseball, he smiled and said sure. I also caught him staring at me after that so I thought it's a good sign. But then later of that night he sent me a message in FB and said he could not go with me because he had to do something else. I was so sad since I knew what he meant, so I replied back saying sorry for making him uncomfortable and that I like him so I just wanted to be closer. It took him 1 day to send me another reply, saying I'm nice too but it's best if we just stay friends. I told him I never tried to be someone more than a friend, as I know we don't know much about each other yet. I just want to become friends and understand him more. That's why I asked him out for the baseball game so he can be comfortable. Since then he deactivated his FB and we don't talk at work anymore. I don't think he's avoiding me since he's still around and I caught him looking at me once. I just don't know how to talk to him from now on but don't want to be awkward at work. Please give me some advice!!!