What do you look for in a potential Spouse?

Pookah

Pookah

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I wanted someone just like my husband. Gentle, silly, easy to get along with, similar interests, cute accent. XD
 
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movielover21

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I think having movie expectations on true love (Such as The Princess Bride ^) gives us hope to be the prince charming to the princess out there who needs us. They need us and we need them. Although movies aren't always accurate representations of what true love consists of, we should honor the characteristics of being the loving man/woman and going to any length to keep that love. In modern times, we may always seem to be looking, but never just let fate take care of itself. If your heart is open, then true love will be there. I'm really trying to make this as gushy as possible :)
 
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ImNotMyIllness

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^Movie notion of love. I daydream a lot about being a modern prince charming. Saving a damsel in distress in exchange for her saving me from my own suffocating emptiness.
My heart is open, now I just need a freak'n GPS. lol
 
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movielover21

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I think we are all empty until we find that special someone. Friends and relationships make up most of us. And who doesn't wanna be a prince charming? lol

And my GPS is heartless. I've tried flirting with her. All she says is "recalculating." I'm through with her.
 
Brit

Brit

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Someone with a great personality.
Some who has gone through a lot, but has a positive outlook on life.

I can name 2 girls, at 13, that are like this
 
Richey

Richey

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Just someone nice, they dont even have to make me laugh, if they can laugh at themselves then that's good. But really just someone who i can calmly get along with and we just like each other. that's it. Maybe can be into music and movies, books, games. i dont care what job they have or their finances. In an unpredictable consumer/supply/demand/resource market nothing is certain, but people are.
 
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coyote

coyote

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female, white, 35-50, 5'2", 125 lbs, size 4-6, red hair, green eyes,
must have an income of $50,000 or more, must like cats, italian food, and oral sex
 
OceanMist

OceanMist

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ImNotMyIllness said:
What's important? What do you need? Would love to hear your responses.
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it's gotten down to a very small amount of things that I look for at this point.

Questions like these I think are tough because there are so many details with people that it can be hard to not leave something out.

But anyway, I want a woman who loves me for who I am as a person, that loves talking to me, that is attractive and that is as smart as I am(I'm not sure how smart I am but I think I'm at least average).

I gotta say that's about it. I don't care about money and popularity. Any status thing is irrelevant.

Oh yeah, and if I go down on her she has to go down on me without me having to ask. I'm being serious because i've had a woman who didn't do that which was pretty unfair and selfish.

The last thing that sums a lot up is a want a woman who understands me. Understands what I want and think and all that love stuff.
 
gustavofring

gustavofring

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I've never really been specific. I've only had 2 or 3 serious relationships in my life at 26, and most of them I just dove into without much thought.

At any rate I have had enough of girls/women who have emotional attacks all the time, deep insecurities, tendecy for complaining etc. like my previous gf.
I would like someone a bit stable and peaceful, not so controlled by hysteric moods or dramatizing. Someone who I can be comfortable around, but not someone who constantly needs attention or constant affirmation. Also someone who can take initiative to go out and do stuff and not be a couch potato, because I am a couch potato myself but want to better myself.
 
KiaKaha

KiaKaha

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Acceptance.
Willing to actually give me a chance.

I am only this bitter because of so much rejection. I know that it puts people off, but if I could get a chance I wouldn't be this way to begin with. I am actually very easy to get along with... so I am told.
 
Hellhound

Hellhound

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KiaKaha said:
Acceptance.
Willing to actually give me a chance.

I am only this bitter because of so much rejection. I know that it puts people off, but if I could get a chance I wouldn't be this way to begin with. I am actually very easy to get along with... so I am told.
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But you don't come off as bitter to me :thinking:
 
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The Lost

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A pulse.

I really don't know ><. I guess I'd look for someone who's tolerant, encouraging and positive (but within reason).
 
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