Do you know what they are? Do you obey them? Do you agree with them? Do you understand them?
I just spent a little time researching this while I'm waiting for the dryer to buzz. I found a number of lists, many of which had rules I thought were just silly and likely made up on the spot.
This was the most comprehensive list I've found so far: Society's Unwritten Rules | First Page | Forum | Gaia Online
"1. Don't stare at fellow commuters on public transportation."
There's also these: Unwritten rules of "American Society" - Ars Technica OpenForum
"1. Tip waiters at least %15"
40 Unwritten Rules to Live By
"1. Never ask a woman if she wants to have sex by asking her if she wants to have sex."
^Hah! :bigsmile:
I also found an interesting blog by a guy with Asperger syndrome who is trying to understand them all, here: Unwritten Rules | Society's Unwritten Rules explained for people with ASD
Maybe we could compile a list of our own. It certainly can be confusing, and a lot of us really have no clue.
I just spent a little time researching this while I'm waiting for the dryer to buzz. I found a number of lists, many of which had rules I thought were just silly and likely made up on the spot.
This was the most comprehensive list I've found so far: Society's Unwritten Rules | First Page | Forum | Gaia Online
"1. Don't stare at fellow commuters on public transportation."
There's also these: Unwritten rules of "American Society" - Ars Technica OpenForum
"1. Tip waiters at least %15"
40 Unwritten Rules to Live By
"1. Never ask a woman if she wants to have sex by asking her if she wants to have sex."
^Hah! :bigsmile:
I also found an interesting blog by a guy with Asperger syndrome who is trying to understand them all, here: Unwritten Rules | Society's Unwritten Rules explained for people with ASD
Maybe we could compile a list of our own. It certainly can be confusing, and a lot of us really have no clue.