Staring

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I'm not a starey person but I think that generally if I do stare it's out of fascination. I think if men stare when they're attracted to someone. I don't think women stare when they're attracted to someone, I think they stare when they find something about someone interesting.

I feel exactly the same. I'm really not a starer for the most part! When I do stare at women I have no lustful intent, it's just I'm fascinated by some aspect of them.

 

[kilojoule]

^ *nods in agreement*

For me the last person I'd stare at would be someone I'm attracted to

I really wish I could do my hair how she did her hair. I'm always envious of other girls who know how to do fancy things with their hair. I do look to see how they've done it and see if I can figure out how to copy it. It's total admiration.

 

[OceanMist]

I realize this. I'm sure I've done my fair share of staring. It's when I make eye contact with this person and they continue to stare - that is what unnerves me. Wouldn't you find that a little odd if they continued to stare?

Hey, I'm a guy. I love it when women stare at me. It must be the difference between genders?

It seems women relate staring to creepiness, while men relate staring to "I might get laid with that woman."

Women, feel free to stare all you want. I love the attention.