jryden
Well-known member
Like I said in my other post about finding out about SA this yr, I've also beed reading on here about selective mutism. I was too lazy to research it but I did and thats another thing I'm now discovering about myself. I rarely say anything beyond Y/N or a very short answer. I have a lot to say but the words can't come out, or they dont come out right or I just cant think of anything to say.
I just read this really sad post on this other site. If there's anything that I've read that fully describes me, its this. Although she says she was never shy or nervous, I've always been like that.
Like her, I have no friends. I lost the few ones I had who i dont think even liked me. If theres anything i am so afraid of right now, its finding a job. Not only can i not find anything to apply for where my anxiety wouldnt go too crazy, I am afraid I wont ever be hired. You can tell me to be positive and keep trying but tbh, it wont help. My mom has such high expectations of me. Saying with a degree, I should be able to get this job or that job but no one knows about my issues. I just want to cry everytime she says something like that. And no, i wont tell them. Also afraid I wont ever make any real friends. My mom keeps pushing me to go out and be social. Again because they dont know about my issues, they dont get it. They know I am shy but nothing beyond that. They make fun of me saying when will you start dating. I laugh it off but in that moment, i want to bitch slap them lol
Another morning, another breakdown. Whats new!?
I just read this really sad post on this other site. If there's anything that I've read that fully describes me, its this. Although she says she was never shy or nervous, I've always been like that.
Like her, I have no friends. I lost the few ones I had who i dont think even liked me. If theres anything i am so afraid of right now, its finding a job. Not only can i not find anything to apply for where my anxiety wouldnt go too crazy, I am afraid I wont ever be hired. You can tell me to be positive and keep trying but tbh, it wont help. My mom has such high expectations of me. Saying with a degree, I should be able to get this job or that job but no one knows about my issues. I just want to cry everytime she says something like that. And no, i wont tell them. Also afraid I wont ever make any real friends. My mom keeps pushing me to go out and be social. Again because they dont know about my issues, they dont get it. They know I am shy but nothing beyond that. They make fun of me saying when will you start dating. I laugh it off but in that moment, i want to bitch slap them lol
Another morning, another breakdown. Whats new!?