igetpinched
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Hi all-
I joined this forum to try and get some insight on the ocd issue by boyfriend has, and also for my personal interest (I have panic disorder and general anxiety).
Anyway, I started dating this guy a few months ago. He told me that he pinched previously girlfriends in the past (and his mother as a child)... and that it was a very bad habit. Well, I believe it's more than a habit (obviously). He is obsessed with pinching, especially cold skin (yes rather strange)... it's a satisfaction when he does it.
The only reason I see it being an "issue" is because it really hurts sometimes. I wouldn't call it abuse, but it is very aggravating. Especially weird pinching the hell out of me in public.
He has been pinching since he was a baby (started with his moms earlobes) and he said she did punish him for it as a child... so that kinda threw out my theory that was conditioned that it was okay. He said that it has become progressively worse over the past 3 years.
Any thoughts?
I joined this forum to try and get some insight on the ocd issue by boyfriend has, and also for my personal interest (I have panic disorder and general anxiety).
Anyway, I started dating this guy a few months ago. He told me that he pinched previously girlfriends in the past (and his mother as a child)... and that it was a very bad habit. Well, I believe it's more than a habit (obviously). He is obsessed with pinching, especially cold skin (yes rather strange)... it's a satisfaction when he does it.
The only reason I see it being an "issue" is because it really hurts sometimes. I wouldn't call it abuse, but it is very aggravating. Especially weird pinching the hell out of me in public.
He has been pinching since he was a baby (started with his moms earlobes) and he said she did punish him for it as a child... so that kinda threw out my theory that was conditioned that it was okay. He said that it has become progressively worse over the past 3 years.
Any thoughts?