twiggle
Well-known member
So I'm sat here on a Sunday afternoon with the sun shining, a bit of reggae music on, glass of orange juice and am just browsing the internet when all of a sudden, I read a sentence somewhere that triggers a vivid memory of something that somebody said to me on FB chat several months ago, that I didn't understand and spent a lot of time painstakingly trying to work out, naturally assuming that it was an insult.
My jolly, Summery mood is suddenly transported back to that afternoon and then, like a sudden shower of rain, back come the memories of various other things that have made me paranoid over the past few months. As a result I'm thinking about things from different chapters of the past and finding new meanings for them - mainly these are things that people said (or didn't say) or facial expressions I noted.
I've noticed that one of the main characteristics of my anxiety is the tendency to be extremely paranoid and over-analytical of things and it makes it very difficult for me to trust people. I am always assuming that people dislike me (apart from my closest friends) and as a result I don't really bother that much with new people because I just assume that they have more interesting people to talk to.
People say not to think the worst and I try not to. I'm generally a lot better than I was a few months ago, but still I have the dilemma - is it better to be like this, or just never worry at all and consequently become in danger of living under the false pretense of naivety?
I find that the busier I am, the less I think and analyse stuff. But its impossible to be busy all the time and especially since I'm unemployed with no money and living in a new town with like, 1 friend (haha) who is local, I've got a lot of time to be thinking.
I was wondering if anybody else ever felt like this, or had any tips on how to put a cork in this bottle? I've looked at CBT but to be honest... I find it makes me think more... and I want to think less.
& Happy Sunday SPW
My jolly, Summery mood is suddenly transported back to that afternoon and then, like a sudden shower of rain, back come the memories of various other things that have made me paranoid over the past few months. As a result I'm thinking about things from different chapters of the past and finding new meanings for them - mainly these are things that people said (or didn't say) or facial expressions I noted.
I've noticed that one of the main characteristics of my anxiety is the tendency to be extremely paranoid and over-analytical of things and it makes it very difficult for me to trust people. I am always assuming that people dislike me (apart from my closest friends) and as a result I don't really bother that much with new people because I just assume that they have more interesting people to talk to.
People say not to think the worst and I try not to. I'm generally a lot better than I was a few months ago, but still I have the dilemma - is it better to be like this, or just never worry at all and consequently become in danger of living under the false pretense of naivety?
I find that the busier I am, the less I think and analyse stuff. But its impossible to be busy all the time and especially since I'm unemployed with no money and living in a new town with like, 1 friend (haha) who is local, I've got a lot of time to be thinking.
I was wondering if anybody else ever felt like this, or had any tips on how to put a cork in this bottle? I've looked at CBT but to be honest... I find it makes me think more... and I want to think less.
& Happy Sunday SPW