doubleM
Well-known member
hey im new here. ive suffered from social phobia my whole life. also depression and anxiety. im 29, single, no kids, in college. ive had things generally under control for a few years, until recently some crap happened that really set it off. this girl bailed on me on a date. then the next week another bailed on me. ive had alot of trouble talking to women. i also had problems with some coworkers. people just suck period. im old enough to the point i dont want to deal with this stuff anymore.
ive been having these same problems since i was a teenager. i dont understand people. ive had alot of jobs...its not because i did a bad job, its because i got frustrated and quit because someone was always making trouble for me. when someone comes in who is intelligent and works hard, they just want to tear you down and backstab.
i guess the worst thing that i feel is feeling like a failure and the unbearable grief of it. feeling completely alone. im good at alot of things, but i cant act right in front of people. that torments me and i cant find an answer as to why. i want something to make it go away but that wont happen. its like its hardwired in me. i never feel any peace of mind about myself.
anyway i feel that people dont respect me. now im mostly at home alone thinking. suicide has really crossed my mind but i have not actually contemplated it. im tired of this same crap over and over. when i think about my life i see the same old patterns. i thought about moving out for college but thats difficult.
for me giving up is harder than trying. i could off myself now, or i can stay in school, make a better life, and try to meet some better people.
but the pain and loneliness is unbearable.::
ive been having these same problems since i was a teenager. i dont understand people. ive had alot of jobs...its not because i did a bad job, its because i got frustrated and quit because someone was always making trouble for me. when someone comes in who is intelligent and works hard, they just want to tear you down and backstab.
i guess the worst thing that i feel is feeling like a failure and the unbearable grief of it. feeling completely alone. im good at alot of things, but i cant act right in front of people. that torments me and i cant find an answer as to why. i want something to make it go away but that wont happen. its like its hardwired in me. i never feel any peace of mind about myself.
anyway i feel that people dont respect me. now im mostly at home alone thinking. suicide has really crossed my mind but i have not actually contemplated it. im tired of this same crap over and over. when i think about my life i see the same old patterns. i thought about moving out for college but thats difficult.
for me giving up is harder than trying. i could off myself now, or i can stay in school, make a better life, and try to meet some better people.
but the pain and loneliness is unbearable.::