Never had a relationship

Birdman

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Ive never had a relationship, never hung around girls cuz i was to shy, i feel so sad all i want is to have a relationship, i know im not ugly i just dont have the confidence in myself,

Every year during christmas we have a fair, everyone in my family is going and im not, because when i go the whole time im going to see couples holding hands, and kissing. I have always wanted to do be with a girl and share moments like that, and im 19 years old and never experienced anything nice with a girl.
 

Klaus

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Date through msn! When you become better, you can invite her to a restaurant.

I would like so much to drive a car, to go to a restaurant, to go to the cinema, to do all the things that normal people do!

To go to the beach, to Disney World, to a soccer game, to a music concert!

I simply can't!
 

Nack

Banned
Don't worry bud, you are not alone. I have experience the same thing. Back when i was in high school, i had a lot of opportunities to get into relationship. Actually, this one in particular was my best chance, but i got chickened out. Basically, this girl was giving me all sorts of signals! Omg, you cannot believe it, she went out of her ways to make me poems, cards, etc. and all i did was ignore her! That wasnt my intention, i just got scared, and I think i made her feel like shes not good enough. Every time i think about it, i always get depress and have regrets.
 

Kien

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I find it so annoying that it's confidence that attracts girls. A good personality is something I see more important. Good people can have not so much confidence.
 

Primrose

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Kien said:
I find it so annoying that it's confidence that attracts girls. A good personality is something I see more important. Good people can have not so much confidence.

That's quite an interesting comment from you considering you don't see females in the same light. You've said before that a good personality isn't enough to attract you to a girl but you expect her to feel that way about you?
 

chris87

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I've never had a relationship, and I'm 20. I try not to worry about it too much. I don't want to be alone forever though, so eventually, I will have to force myself to socialize with females.
 

Kien

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Primrose said:
Kien said:
I find it so annoying that it's confidence that attracts girls. A good personality is something I see more important. Good people can have not so much confidence.

That's quite an interesting comment from you considering you don't see females in the same light. You've said before that a good personality isn't enough to attract you to a girl but you expect her to feel that way about you?
But we work a bit different. I think that most people are not as shallow as I am. It's not much more than appearance that affects me.
 
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