Masturbation - have you ever done it? (no provocation)

Masturbation - have you ever done it?

  • Yes - but I avoid it insistently

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  • No - I have never done it

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  • I have no need to do it at all

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  • Total voters
    2

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
Good morning

I'd like to ask if you have ever done it. It is my great problem, moral
problem. I've a need to be possibly good and morally pur. I don't know if
it's a compulsive thinking. But I quite often fall down and surrender the sinny temptation.

It makes me feel very bad, a great sense of guilt appears and of moral
impurity and sinness.
I know that much people do it quite regularly but it doesn't leave me in
peace.

It's such difficulty to me. and hard, and terrible...

What is that in your instance? Do your feeling of self respect is hurted by doing it?

I've after it feeling I myself am impur, my body,hands are impur, everything I'm doing is impur! Horrible! I need confess then, but am despite still unhappy...

Does it look like an OCD or is it normal feeling? Do you also feel similarly?? Let me know, very please.

Could you advice me somehow?? I feel terribly.

Good bye

P.S.Excuse me for the probable errors, I still learn English...
 

maggie

Well-known member
cutefluffykitten said:
i used to feel so discusted in myself for doing it and would go 6months to a year without doing that.

but the last 4 months and within that time at first i felt bad for doing it and that God would take the holy spirit from me etc etc

yet now i do it and think of the man i love and all that guilt and self discust has gone.

i think if its done with the love in your heart for another and that its them you are thinking of (with there knowledge) then its ok.

i totally understand the feeling of it being wrong cause like i said it used to feel wrong
but not anymore
actually its amazing and it feels great :lol:

We are all sinners ..not one of us is pure or worthy and none are perfect.

Using porn to masturbate i would say is where feeling unclean and wrong can stem from and porn is a bad thing for the soul i think,.

Masturbation with purer thoughts are a good thing.

Sex is not wrong ......God gave us the sensations didnt he...and was meant for us to enjoy.

Dont beat yourself off...jsut find a different way of doing it or quit all together if you still feel bad after.

God bless
awesome post cutefluffy..well said :!:
 

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
Well. Maybe you've some right. cutefluffy.
But I still find masturbation as sin, graet sin... :cry:
Oh, me miserable...

Nice day!
 

maggie

Well-known member
Snaefridhur said:
Well. Maybe you've some right. cutefluffy.
But I still find masturbation as sin, graet sin... :cry:
Oh, me miserable...

Nice day!
snaefridhur..do you have some religious belief that views masturbation as wrong? Otherwise, i see nothing wrong with it..and there likely aren't many people on earth that haven't done it. It's a normal, natural feeling to have and it doesn't hurt anyone. It's a harmless release of sexual energy..try not to be so hard on yourself about it..it's only natural :wink:
 

appletree

Well-known member
why is masturbation a sin?
ohhh has religion made you think something natural is a sin like it always does..hmm.
try looking into atheism/buddhism?
and no i am not trying to be provocative, tis just my opinion.
 

appletree

Well-known member
this is interesting "porn is a bad thing for the soul i think"
i consider myself atheist but i agree totally with that, i never got the whole porn thing. most guys are sex obsessed idiots.
 

Reidus

Active member
you're all a bunch of wankers! HAHAHAHAHA! No, seriously - why make a thread about masturbation?! Masturbation is queer.
 

Niles

Active member
I find it sad when i hear about people who have a guilt complex about masturbation. It's natural and healthy.
 

cosmosis

Well-known member
It's a sad state that something so natural and healthy has turned into something so evil and wrong. Why do those sexually repressed religious nuts have to continually tell us our bodies are evil? They cause more pain and more guilt and more psychological problems than anything in this world. All those old twisted men need a good blowjob.
 

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
I will not agree. They're right, I think so as well. But the "desire" is too strong, so this constant ambivalence lasts and lasts... :( :roll:

How I would like to get rid of that feeling! :x
 

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
I see recently, I can avoid it successily.

I've recently had a 1.5-month masturbation-free period. I managed it.

And what time interval was the longest when you have managed to avoid
masturbation? Or if you do not want to say, then do not say.

I needed to praise somehow myself of it, although some of you persuade me it's a bit silly. It is not, as I see it.
 

cosmosis

Well-known member
Reward for not masturbating?

There's only one reward for that...go masturbate..you earned it.

I'm sorry, I cant stand by and simply listen to this shit. You cannot stop yourself for being human. You cannot reward yourself for denying your humanity. All you are doing is living in guilt because your body will eventually win out. Not because its evil, but because its a human body with human desires.

ahh, but its much more than guilt. The natural progression is that you start to see women as evil - afterall, women is what arouses your need to masturbate. You start to see anything to do with the body as evil. Then the really fucked-up sideeffects can happen. All that repression can lead to uncontrolled releases..and it can come in any form like rubbing up against someone on the bus to being aroused by children to raping someone.

There's only one problem with masturbation and thats that people dont do it enough.
 

rado31

Well-known member
cosmosis said:
Reward for not masturbating?

There's only one reward for that...go masturbate..you earned it.

I'm sorry, I cant stand by and simply listen to this shit. You cannot stop yourself for being human. You cannot reward yourself for denying your humanity. All you are doing is living in guilt because your body will eventually win out. Not because its evil, but because its a human body with human desires.

ahh, but its much more than guilt. The natural progression is that you start to see women as evil - afterall, women is what arouses your need to masturbate. You start to see anything to do with the body as evil. Then the really fucked-up sideeffects can happen. All that repression can lead to uncontrolled releases..and it can come in any form like rubbing up against someone on the bus to being aroused by children to raping someone.

There's only one problem with masturbation and thats that people dont do it enough.


Well, my senses always talked to me it is not natural act. Hm, does animals masturbate? Neverthless, if it is natural i feel inferior after. I would rather have sex with a rubber doll instead.
 

cosmosis

Well-known member
Any animal that can masturbate, does masturbate (e.g. primates). No one naturally grows up feeling inferior if they masturbate, thats society or religion dictating how we should act.
 
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