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If you were to describe yourself...

Started by FriendlyShadow · Mar 13, 2015 · 27 replies

#21
Graeme1988 said: ↑
Whit's that, then...? Be yersel'...? Don't let anybuddy tell ye what to do?

Well yeah, I suppose, but that was not my point, in fact I realize I misread what you wrote. I thought you meant you felt unworthy because you are constantly told that you are. Sorry, my english is average.
#22
Pacific_Loner said: ↑
Well yeah, I suppose, but that was not my point, in fact I realize I misread what you wrote. I thought you meant you felt unworthy because you are constantly told that you are. Sorry, my english is average.

Nae need to be sorry - what was yer point?
#23
^ 🙂 My point was that you are saying yourself that the reason why you feel unworthy is that you are constantly told that you are. So your brain has been conditioned to think that you are. At some point it has become so ingrained in your brain that you probably started acting accordingly.

But deep inside of you, you know that the reason you feel unworthy is because you are conditioned, since you said it yourself (or so I thought). Therefore, you have the beginning of the power to undo the conditioning.

I apologize again, I think I got a bit off-topic.
#24
Bronson99 said: ↑
Intellectual, ambitious, accomplished, and simply better than most people.

I don't suffer fools gladly. Mediocrity and apathy will just grate on my nerves until I bring you to tears. I reserve my time for high quality humans only, people who actually believe life is about achievement.

... Christ, you'll soon regret messaging me then 🤭 Doesn't much sound like you belong on this forum ?
#25
Lonely, unloved, and suicidal
#26
Pacific_Loner said: ↑
^ 🙂 My point was that you are saying yourself that the reason why you feel unworthy is that you are constantly told that you are. So your brain has been conditioned to think that you are. At some point it has become so ingrained in your brain that you probably started acting accordingly.

But deep inside of you, you know that the reason you feel unworthy is because you are conditioned, since you said it yourself (or so I thought). Therefore, you have the beginning of the power to undo the conditioning.

I apologize again, I think I got a bit off-topic.

Awright, ah see where you're coming from now.
#27
NamiraWilhelm said: ↑
... Christ, you'll soon regret messaging me then 🤭 Doesn't much sound like you belong on this forum ?

LOL, 'twas sarcasm of the strongest degree... sometimes I like to "act" 🙂 It's fun to try and portray the exact kind of personality I tend to detest and avoid, at all costs.

I guess a more precise way to describe it is: a generic, arrogant, "normal" person who seems to fixate on climbing ladders of any kind, that is their whole mode of operation, whatever else is happening in their life it's just secondary and often unimportant. Very, very foreign way of thinking/living, to me.

As for my real self... shy, introverted, artistic, eccentric, among other things.
#28
I would describe myself as creative, intelligent, introspective, kind , easy to talk to, friendly, and open-minded,
some of those qualities i've been told by people like teachers and counsellors.
The other qualities that sometime like to come out: quiet, observant, analytical to a fault, paranoid, relaxed, aloof

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