jimmy75
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I probably won't get a response to this, I just thought I might as well tell everyone here my story because my situation is desperate. I feel my life is messed up beyond repair. I'm not going to hide anything here, I'm just going to be completely honest and get all this off my chest.
I'm a 19 year old living in the UK and have suffered from severe social anxiety as long as a can remember, at one point it was so severe that it was full-blown selective mutism. I never so******ed with anyone else apart from my parents, not even other family members and as a result I've got no really close family I keep in touch with. My childhood wasn't exactly bad and I didn't have friends but still I played videogames most of the time and things were tolerable. My parents split up when I was young, and I've lived all my life with my mother.
My relationship with my mother was always good but then I did something that messed up my future when I was 16. I'm not sure why I was so stupid or reckless but in my spare time I started downloading child porn, but even more stupidly I didn't have a password on my laptop so within a few months it was discovered while I was on holiday visiting an Uncle. After this incident my life has never been the same, I've been thrown out of home, I've been to court twice and things are still ongoing. My mother made it clear that I wasn't allowed to come back home and I accepted this at first but now a few things have changed. How the hell do you expect a person with very severe social anxiety to live independently? My father paid for a flat for me to live in, and I guess I should be grateful, but I'm not. I just want to go and live with my Mother again.
I begged her to let me back in, she refused quite strongly. I've been drinking alcohol heavily since my 18th birthday and can't cope without it. I can't get a job or go to college with my criminal conviction and I've got no friends. In addition to this, the block of flats I live in is absolutely hellish, I live with very aggressive and noisy neighbours who bang on the wall and scream if I make the slightest sound. All my money goes on alcohol, I don't eat anything, I don't pay my bills. I don't really care anymore unless I can go home.
Last night I got desperate and went back to my Mother's house. I got drunk beforehand and begged her to let me come and live with her again, I know it's pathetic, but it's true. I told her that i'm unable to pay my bills and I'm slowly wasting away with malnutrition and loneliness. She made it clear that she doesn't want me dragging her down with me and asked me to leave, she offered to give me a lift to my flat. I refused, she phoned the police, they arrived and I still didn't leave. I was handcuffed, shoved in the back of a police van and taken to the nearest police station for breach of the peace. I wasn't charged, but I had to spend four hours in a cold cell. I got home at midnight, and I was seriously considering suicide. I've been crying all day, I haven't eaten. I honestly don't know what to do.
I know I must come across as extremely pathetic and that is probably the case. It's just I'm not emotionally equipped to deal with my current situation, there's no way out, and I'm suffering.
I'm a 19 year old living in the UK and have suffered from severe social anxiety as long as a can remember, at one point it was so severe that it was full-blown selective mutism. I never so******ed with anyone else apart from my parents, not even other family members and as a result I've got no really close family I keep in touch with. My childhood wasn't exactly bad and I didn't have friends but still I played videogames most of the time and things were tolerable. My parents split up when I was young, and I've lived all my life with my mother.
My relationship with my mother was always good but then I did something that messed up my future when I was 16. I'm not sure why I was so stupid or reckless but in my spare time I started downloading child porn, but even more stupidly I didn't have a password on my laptop so within a few months it was discovered while I was on holiday visiting an Uncle. After this incident my life has never been the same, I've been thrown out of home, I've been to court twice and things are still ongoing. My mother made it clear that I wasn't allowed to come back home and I accepted this at first but now a few things have changed. How the hell do you expect a person with very severe social anxiety to live independently? My father paid for a flat for me to live in, and I guess I should be grateful, but I'm not. I just want to go and live with my Mother again.
I begged her to let me back in, she refused quite strongly. I've been drinking alcohol heavily since my 18th birthday and can't cope without it. I can't get a job or go to college with my criminal conviction and I've got no friends. In addition to this, the block of flats I live in is absolutely hellish, I live with very aggressive and noisy neighbours who bang on the wall and scream if I make the slightest sound. All my money goes on alcohol, I don't eat anything, I don't pay my bills. I don't really care anymore unless I can go home.
Last night I got desperate and went back to my Mother's house. I got drunk beforehand and begged her to let me come and live with her again, I know it's pathetic, but it's true. I told her that i'm unable to pay my bills and I'm slowly wasting away with malnutrition and loneliness. She made it clear that she doesn't want me dragging her down with me and asked me to leave, she offered to give me a lift to my flat. I refused, she phoned the police, they arrived and I still didn't leave. I was handcuffed, shoved in the back of a police van and taken to the nearest police station for breach of the peace. I wasn't charged, but I had to spend four hours in a cold cell. I got home at midnight, and I was seriously considering suicide. I've been crying all day, I haven't eaten. I honestly don't know what to do.
I know I must come across as extremely pathetic and that is probably the case. It's just I'm not emotionally equipped to deal with my current situation, there's no way out, and I'm suffering.