I did it!!!

[black-wings]

yesterday i told you guys about the girl in my apartment. So i went over today and asked her if I could take her out and she said sure! I got her number! thanks guys for your support and advice! Feels great to get over my anxiety and do that!

 

[Feathers]

YAY!! Congratulations!! You guys have fun!!!

 

[lonely_drummer]

oh yes!! thats awesome to hear!

 

[KiaKaha]

Very cool. That takes a lot. Hope you have fun smoothie

 

[EasySkanking]

Good for you man . Congrats!! Have fun!

 

[BlackPuma]

Congratulations, dude! :3 Have a nice time.

 

[FinalSolution]

Good job. Takes a lot of courage for some1 like "us"

 

[coyote]

you are the MAN!

way to go!

 

[BlueDays]

Yay! some good news! Hope it goes well for you! congrats

 

[TooShyShy]

That is fantastic..good for you! You did it
You must feel so good right now!!!!!!!



I can only imagine..do you feel like you are walking on a cloud today?

 

[EscapeArtist]

No way! Awesome.

 

[groovy]

Woww! Good job! There's hope for us all. lol

 

[black-wings]

That is fantastic..good for you! You did it
You must feel so good right now!!!!!!!



I can only imagine..do you feel like you are walking on a cloud today?

Sorta kinda. Ive had 3 girlfriends in the past but approaching people, especially women, has always been a challenge. Now I feel like I can approach anyone with ease.

 

[Kato]

Your the man! Proves how brave you can be when you motivate yourself.
I could learn something here.

 

[TooShyShy]

Wouldn't it be wonderful if every guy (or girl) on here could just go up to one person that they really like and ask them out?


How amazingly happy the world would be

 

[Why]

gooooood job, transfer some of those skills to me

u mind posting a brief convo of how it went down? Im always confused on how ppl go from casual talk to more "involved" talk aka asking out and numbers and that stuff.

 

[Sial Axetder]

Wouldn't it be wonderful if every guy (or girl) on here could just go up to one person that they really like and ask them out?


How amazingly happy the world would be

Only to see that ring on the left hand. Of course.

Anyway, staying positive, black-wings. Hope all goes well. Bona fortuna, and enjoy.

 

[black-wings]

gooooood job, transfer some of those skills to me

u mind posting a brief convo of how it went down? Im always confused on how ppl go from casual talk to more "involved" talk aka asking out and numbers and that stuff.

Well go to friendship and love section on you'll see on "girl at my apartment" thread. Thats how it started. But basically today I knew I had to make a move and fast before she lost interest. So i knocked on her door at like 1 p.m. and no one was there. So I went back at 3:30 and look who opens the door, her! So i was like:

"hey can i talk to real quick"
her: "sure"
"If you're not busy this week, I'd love to take you out to go bowling or to a movie or something"
"Sure, Ill let you know when Im free. Maybe this weekend or I dunno cuz I might go home this weekend. But Ill let you know"
"Cool can i have your number?"
"sure its ********"

so i texted her my number and now i play the waiting game lol

thats how it went down basically lol

 

[Mokkat]

social anxiety? pffffft

/joke

Good job man, she sounds down to earth

 

[black-wings]

so do you all think thats the way to go now? playing the waiting game?