Moonchild
Active member
Hello everybody. I would like to share this with you, it is not much but I have nobody else to share it with. I was suffering from social anxiety for quite a long time now and just about a few months ago, I thought I was actually doing better. I found myself a descend boyfriend, a good job and really slowly and frightened I made my little steps. But I did make some steps. And little by little I began to feel something strange. Comfort. Strengh. Only a little. The negative thoughts that were my loyal companion for all my life seemed to be fading away. All untill today.
Today I ran into this girl on facebook. My ex best friend from high school. My biggest fear. The only person I would use the word hate for.
She was low profile and shy at first so we were a good match, hang out together. Then I started dating a cute guy and all sudden, strange things were happening behind my back.
She appeared to be in love with him too or maybe used him and me too to rise above her shyness and become polular. She actually steped onto my soul to achieve this. She started telling him lies about me. That I was untrue to him, that I was unfaithfull. He believed all of her crap. At first I was living in a daydream, I was not aware of what was going on. Not a clue. She was trying to approach any friend I made and tell more lies about me as if her aim was to see me all alone, god knows why. She and my boyfriend started dating behind my back. Then they started talking about me behind my back together. Then they decided to make a fool out of me. The result was four years, four whole years of them laughing at me and making jokes on me at school all of the time. I bacame the class clown and had to face pure cruelty out of them every single day. My mistake was that I never stood up for my self. So, I began stattering in highschool, hated my hometown forever and gone to college as far as possible. I experienced severe lack of confidence ever since and social phobia.
But I felt better these months. As if I finally got over these awfull people and the way they treated me. I was feeling all right with my self and I was ready to start living again. But the ghosts are back today. An old classmate added her as a friend on facebook. and bang.. she is back in my life and in my mind. Eating my self esteem greedily as she did for pleasure every single day in high school. My ex best friend, the one person I trusted the most, the person that ruined my life.
I am really sorry to bother you all with my long story but I needed to tell it to someone cause it's been quite a shock seeing her face again.
Thanks for reading this
Today I ran into this girl on facebook. My ex best friend from high school. My biggest fear. The only person I would use the word hate for.
She was low profile and shy at first so we were a good match, hang out together. Then I started dating a cute guy and all sudden, strange things were happening behind my back.
She appeared to be in love with him too or maybe used him and me too to rise above her shyness and become polular. She actually steped onto my soul to achieve this. She started telling him lies about me. That I was untrue to him, that I was unfaithfull. He believed all of her crap. At first I was living in a daydream, I was not aware of what was going on. Not a clue. She was trying to approach any friend I made and tell more lies about me as if her aim was to see me all alone, god knows why. She and my boyfriend started dating behind my back. Then they started talking about me behind my back together. Then they decided to make a fool out of me. The result was four years, four whole years of them laughing at me and making jokes on me at school all of the time. I bacame the class clown and had to face pure cruelty out of them every single day. My mistake was that I never stood up for my self. So, I began stattering in highschool, hated my hometown forever and gone to college as far as possible. I experienced severe lack of confidence ever since and social phobia.
But I felt better these months. As if I finally got over these awfull people and the way they treated me. I was feeling all right with my self and I was ready to start living again. But the ghosts are back today. An old classmate added her as a friend on facebook. and bang.. she is back in my life and in my mind. Eating my self esteem greedily as she did for pleasure every single day in high school. My ex best friend, the one person I trusted the most, the person that ruined my life.
I am really sorry to bother you all with my long story but I needed to tell it to someone cause it's been quite a shock seeing her face again.
Thanks for reading this