summertimesadne
Member
Hello!
I am deeply in love with someone who i cant figure out. I met him year ago and i caught him staring at me every time. We held hands when crossing street. It was just amazing night out.
He went away to study in Europe. We chatted almost every day and i was the one, who was the first who started and i told him that i feel weird starting convos, like being annoying. He said no and "no bother". We talked hours and hours, about everyything.
When i chat with men, in some point they get a bit naughty but he didnt. When he came home for one week, he messaged me and we met- i went to get him from the club and he was a bit tipsy. So yeah, he was all over me...
Then he went back and now he is back for good. I have said that lets meet up, he says yeahyeah we must. Still.. it has been 6 months and we havent met.
Now we talk 1 day in a week but i would want to talk to him for days, every day, i cant stop thinking about him. everything i do or hear or happens, i wanna tell him. i want him by my side.. but i cant figure him out.
Is he gay or just shy? He only adds male friends to FB. I havent heard him talk about some girl friend NEVER! He had a relationship when he was 16-18 and now he is 26 and no girl. not once.
I cant say he is shy because he has so many friendcircle, he knows everybody etc. He likes to talk in front of a large group of people.
I dont know what to do. I dont want to be clingy. Everytime i go out to party, i think of him and just get super sad, because i miss him.
I have no idea how he feels... when we talk, we talk about everything. He search answers for me, he gets protective when i speak about when someone acts badly with me.
Sorry for the long story but have somebody been in this situation, that they cant figure out if the guy is super shy or he isnt just into you?
I am deeply in love with someone who i cant figure out. I met him year ago and i caught him staring at me every time. We held hands when crossing street. It was just amazing night out.
He went away to study in Europe. We chatted almost every day and i was the one, who was the first who started and i told him that i feel weird starting convos, like being annoying. He said no and "no bother". We talked hours and hours, about everyything.
When i chat with men, in some point they get a bit naughty but he didnt. When he came home for one week, he messaged me and we met- i went to get him from the club and he was a bit tipsy. So yeah, he was all over me...
Then he went back and now he is back for good. I have said that lets meet up, he says yeahyeah we must. Still.. it has been 6 months and we havent met.
Now we talk 1 day in a week but i would want to talk to him for days, every day, i cant stop thinking about him. everything i do or hear or happens, i wanna tell him. i want him by my side.. but i cant figure him out.
Is he gay or just shy? He only adds male friends to FB. I havent heard him talk about some girl friend NEVER! He had a relationship when he was 16-18 and now he is 26 and no girl. not once.
I cant say he is shy because he has so many friendcircle, he knows everybody etc. He likes to talk in front of a large group of people.
I dont know what to do. I dont want to be clingy. Everytime i go out to party, i think of him and just get super sad, because i miss him.
I have no idea how he feels... when we talk, we talk about everything. He search answers for me, he gets protective when i speak about when someone acts badly with me.
Sorry for the long story but have somebody been in this situation, that they cant figure out if the guy is super shy or he isnt just into you?