So now a days I only have one friend that I see regularly and he is starting to make me very angry. Every like 2 or 3 days he will call my house and ask if I want to hang out... Sometimes I don't answer the phone because I don't want to hang out with him, other times I'll make up a really lame excuse for why I can't hang out with him, other times I'll say yeah in a couple of hours and then cancel on him an hour or two later, and ofcourse other times I will actually hang out with him. My problem is that I don't really see him as a really good friend and that I can't talk about personal stuff with him, although sometimes I do enjoy hanging out with him because I get out of the house (don't say I am using him because he uses me a lot more, Example: never pays me back even though he has money and uses it with other friends)). But it kinda creeps me out when on like a friday night he'll call my home phone and cell phone a total of 16 times (not an exaggeration, he's done this a few times) and doesn't even leave a message... What doesn't he get?!?! When someone doesn't pick up the phone it means they are gone or not home!!! or in my case hiding from it 😛
But now down to why I need help. I want to know how I can tell him that I only want to hang out with him once a week and no more than that. I know this might sound funny but I hate being asked to hang out with someone without notice. I much prefer preplaned hang outs instead. I want to do this without having to hurt are friendship though.
So does anyone have any advice for me?
But now down to why I need help. I want to know how I can tell him that I only want to hang out with him once a week and no more than that. I know this might sound funny but I hate being asked to hang out with someone without notice. I much prefer preplaned hang outs instead. I want to do this without having to hurt are friendship though.
So does anyone have any advice for me?
