findingbeauty
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Unfortunately trying to keep people down, including yourself, is a symptom of social phobia. The feeling that improvement is impossible is another symptom. I expect that is why CursedSoul chose that username. I suppose that is why so few people ever seek treatment. This thread helps to counteract those symptoms. You are absolutely right that trying to keep people helps no-one, least of all CursedSoul.
hoddesdon, it's fine to support why you believe Nikos is legitimate, but let's not get personal or target anyone - CursedSoul, and anyone for that matter, is entitled to be skeptical. I don't think he was inappropriate or nasty in the way he expressed himself. We are all in different phases and I'm sure we've all been in the place of feeling hopeless and/or skeptical. Whether someone is spamming or legitimate will reveal itself with time anyhow.