Ever get the urge to randomly punch people?

Generical

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Not sure where to put this, anyways sometimes when im talking to someone i just get random urges to punch or push over people. Or if im helping carry something, to just drop it and sometimes even kiss people (and not people i would want to kiss)....i obviously would never do it but just the fact that i think it is really harsh, its almost like my brain absolutely hates me and wants to get me in all kinds of shit.....and then i can't get those thoughts outta my head and i'm thinking what the hell is going on???

yeahhhh just spinning out over this and wandering if anything similar happens to anyone else? 8O
 

social_phobia2008

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yeah, i often feel the urge to punch people , especially those who have the natural gift of socialising with absolutelly no effort:D
 

Emma

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Yes and I did it
:oops:

This girl at school, I used to really really hate her, she was so mean to me, always made me feel so crappy, so one day she was standing in front of me, and our teacher was away....and she pulled a face at me, so I pushed her and opened the door really fast so she fell over, everyone said I was psycho, but I don't think I cared :twisted:
 

ripewithdecay

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I get passing thoughts like that often times, usually when i'm stuck focusing on someone (usually a stranger or someone i don't know too well) for a long period of time. If they don't shut up i'll get this sudden urge to plunge my fist into their face or throw something at them. Kissing though? If it's a pretty chick, yeah I get the urge to just grab her and lay one on her tongue and all.
The reason it's annoying is because it feels like it's hard to hold myself back sometimes or it just makes me nervous and fretful - therefore inviting anxiety at full force.
Eh, it's just lack of social interaction I think, just built up nerves and the like.
 

Leki

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This may sound weird but sometimes i feel like i want someone to punch me. Its like i need to someone to wake me up or something.
Of course i would then hopefully punch them back!
 

gobbledegook

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haha yeah happens to me too!! If someone gets in my way or just annoys me, I think about pushing them over. Instead I just curse them quietly as I walk past...(hoping they don't hear me lol)

Also I sometimes get angry for no reason and have crazy thoughts like smashing things but at least I know how to control myself before I
do things I'll regret hehe :wink:
 

lifes_to_long

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yeh definetly I wouldn't say I get it towards people so much like wanting to hit them but I will take it out on objects I smashed up my mums lawn mower last week with a sledge hmmer and really enjoyed it, apart from the fact i had to buy her a new one but it was worth it.
 

Generical

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Well what i mean is when there is no anger....it's just a random thought that pops into my head, it's not like i consciously want to do it but i just have an urge to, like physically.......hmmm it's kinda hard to explain.

I mean it doesn't really happen much anymore, espec the kissing bit which properly freaked me out......urgh i think i'm just plain strange.
 

sidney

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This girl at school, I used to really really hate her, she was so mean to me, always made me feel so crappy, so one day she was standing in front of me, and our teacher was away....and she pulled a face at me, so I pushed her and opened the door really fast so she fell over, everyone said I was psycho, but I don't think I cared
haha yeah go you!!
yes ive felt the same way although it was years ago and sometimes it still crops up but i think its normal since we tend to hold a lot of emotion inside
 

social_phobia2008

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Emma said:
Yes and I did it
:oops:

This girl at school, I used to really really hate her, she was so mean to me, always made me feel so crappy, so one day she was standing in front of me, and our teacher was away....and she pulled a face at me, so I pushed her and opened the door really fast so she fell over, everyone said I was psycho, but I don't think I cared :twisted:

I guess you felt very good after doing that. We shouldn't let people mock us, we should do something about it.

I did something like that at my high school prom. :D And I'm proud of it. For those who want the whole story, here it is:

I had severe SP in high school, I couldn't talk to almost no one. There was this bully that used to make fun of me, pushed me and stuff. I didn't care cause he was a jackass and it was no use to feel bad.

Anyway, I was absolutelly surprised by his attitude at the prom. During that ''special night'' that all teenagers wait 4 (and not me) I just sat at the table doing nothing but drinking as much as I could to overcome the anxiety.

I went to the bathroom and guess who ? The bully that used to make fun of me the entire high school period. I expected to say something dirty to me, but instead he did something else.

He filled his hands with liquid sope and pushed it in my face. A verbal offence I could take, but not this. As I got very angry, I took away the soap from my face and pushed it into his face.

He was surprised and for a moment didn't knew how to react. Then he grabbed me by my shirt, kncocked me by the wall and punched me in the stomach a few times. I kept my abdomen muscles tense so it didn't hurt me.

During this, he was insisting to appologise to him. Of course I didn't do that. A friend of his came and was spectating. He was also screaming to me to appologise to the bully.

Finnaly, I sad to him : ''I appologise if you do too''. Afer this , he got really angry at me and said that he will punch me in the face if i don;t say sorry to him. If only he was alone....I was waiting for this chance for years...it would have been an equal fight...BUT as more and more came to see the ''show'', it would have been me VS 4-5 guys, so...eventually, I had to quit and appologise to the bastard.

I headed back to the table, I felt horrible cause I could't had the chance to beat him up even if I were to be really injured in the end...I guess it was worth it.

He came up to me after 15 minutes I guess and APPOLOGISE to me 8O 8O 8O. He said he was really sorry because he overreacted and asked if we can be friends 8O 8O 8O . I accepted his appologies and was still in the denial state : how could poeple change in a matter of minutes ???

He came at my table a second time after a second hour and started giving me advice: he showed me a few girls and told me how to invite them to dance, how to have a good time cause it's the motherfu'king prom tonight.

She even came a third time to show me how to have a good time...but you all know how SP acts....so I was forced to say ''No, thanks''

And that's how you can become friend with the bully :twisted:

If only I had the magic pill back then....I used it at my college prom and it was one of the most beautifull nights in my life...girls and shit, too bad my classmated weren't there
 
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