Don't complain.

Hellhound · 2014-03-04T22:35:09+00:00

Before I rant, I want to say that this is not directed to all of you. I'm going to talk about personal experiences after being involved for so long in SA forums. You can now put your pitchforks down. Despite having a degree of SA, I've grown a pair and approached a number of people in both forums...

Started by Hellhound · Mar 4, 2014 · 30 replies

Hellhound Mar 7, 2014 at 9:58 AM #21

Haha guys :bigsmile:

dottie Mar 7, 2014 at 10:20 AM #22

Not offensive at all. My solution: get close to no one ever. (Wish I was kidding) :omg:

DepravedFurball Mar 7, 2014 at 4:41 PM #23

dottie said: ↑
Not offensive at all. My solution: get close to no one ever. (Wish I was kidding) :omg:

That's a little excessive, though. Like... you can't just lump every single individual on the planet together and call them 'Manipulative and Heartless Humans'.

Or... well, you could, but you shouldn't. Probably.

dottie Mar 7, 2014 at 4:48 PM #24

DepravedFurball said: ↑
That's a little excessive, though. Like... you can't just lump every single individual on the planet together and call them 'Manipulative and Heartless Humans'.

Or... well, you could, but you shouldn't. Probably.

I know, I was being sarcastic as far as productive advice goes.

DepravedFurball Mar 7, 2014 at 4:56 PM #25

dottie said: ↑
I know, I was being sarcastic as far as productive advice goes.

Sure you were.

XD

Bo592 Mar 7, 2014 at 5:16 PM #26

You know where bullying come from don`t you. It come from weak people with low self esteem looking to push other down so they can build them selves up. A lot of people with SA has low self esteem. But not all people hear are that bad. their are nice people hear. As for not being a good friend to you in return. Not all people hear are master of commutation that the big part of what social phobia means.

DepravedFurball Mar 7, 2014 at 5:22 PM #27

Bo592 said: ↑
You know where bullying come from don`t you. It come from weak people with low self esteem looking to push other down so they can build them selves up. A lot of people with SA has low self esteem. But not all people hear are that bad. their are nice people hear. As for not being a good friend to you in return. Not all people hear are master of commutation that the big part of what social phobia means.

To whom is this directed towards? 'Cause I don't know if I should take offense or not.

Odo Mar 7, 2014 at 5:37 PM #28

Bo592 said: ↑
You know where bullying come from don`t you. It come from weak people with low self esteem looking to push other down so they can build them selves up.

This is what was believed for a very long time in the 80s and 90s, I think... but research has found that when it comes to bullying, the opposite is true. Bullies have too much self-esteem.

This is why the 'self-esteem movement' failed hard in schools.

Bo592 Mar 7, 2014 at 5:41 PM #29

DepravedFurball said: ↑
To whom is this directed towards? 'Cause I don't know if I should take offense or not.

IT directed to no one . It basic on the study I listen to along time ago . where people who where bullied became bully them selves. I thought it might help to know to clear up what been going on here.

Bo592 Mar 7, 2014 at 5:44 PM #30

Odo said: ↑
This is what was believed for a very long time in the 80s and 90s, I think... but research has found that when it comes to bullying, the opposite is true. Bullies have too much self-esteem.

This is why the 'self-esteem movement' failed hard in schools.

oh sorry guys that where I got the news form the 80 or 90. I feel crazy now for saying that . sorry again people.

Odo Mar 7, 2014 at 5:49 PM #31

Bo592 said: ↑
oh sorry guys that where I got the news form the 80 or 90. I feel crazy now for saying that . sorry again people.

No worries, man... I grew up with that BS too and its failure wasn't as publicized as the movement itself in its day.

Here's an article:

The Gift of Failure | Psychology Today

It's actually a big part of why our generation is so messed up.

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