79_89_99IneIneIne
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I don't know if it is just my anxiety that makes me think that people on this forum and other forums I belong to do not like me or if I really am unwanted. Does anyone else feel the same way?
Not unwanted, but I feel I talk a lot of crap that makes no sense and people who read my posts are laughing at them
aye, me too, i was having a discussion the other night, and im sure im too loud on here, but i dont know how to shut up!
That is exactly what I think and how I have been behaving. I am trying to change this.I very often feel ignored, but after considering everything more carefully (CBT style), I usually realize that:
1) I might feel ignored because I expect others to pay too much attention to me. I have very high expectations (which could be called "dreams" sometimes).
aye, me too, i was having a discussion the other night, and im sure im too loud on here, but i dont know how to shut up!
Oh most certainly I feel that way. Quite often I feel that my words are disregarded since I have no intellectual worth whatsoever, thus I wonder "why bother"?
I highly doubt that. I read your profile and you're studying to be a psychologist and you enjoy debating. If you're successfully pulling that off, there's no way you don't have any intellectual worth. You have to be open-minded and able to see many sides of an argument, which is more than what most people do.
I have a feeling that some members (on any message board, not just this one) feel the way you do and try to compensate by purposefully writing things they feel will make others regard them as intelligent and/or cultured, without fully realizing that they already make worthwhile contributions to the forums when they're not trying so hard.