When I was 19 I met a woman that was in her early thirties, late twenties,I also connected much better with her,much more down to earth than those youngsters,who some are crazy as hell cant decide what they want,want everything to themselves,i could talk all with her,for long times,things I would not talk with no one else,she was married and people would gossip(like always) but she wouldnt mind,neither would I this time.