I don't know how to do it.
I'm also bother by sexist remarks.
The only thing I can tell you is how I take things, remarks or bad behaviours from people.
When I'm hurt by someone, I try to think that they have not bad intentions. I try to think about other posibilities such as: they are upset for their circumstances, they unknown or haven't got the knowledge or the baggage to see things in a different way...of course, if I care for the person I try to clarify things.
I know this way of thinking people can set me in an abuse position but the most part of times, people don't have bad intentions. They sometimes mess it up bc they are human. All are human and are wrong in many ocassions.
In the example I put about my black kid, I don't think the kids who call him black really meant what they did. They have adults who surely taught it to them.
Look, in my country, Spain, there are many citizens who are gypsies. There is racism againts them, however if these people would have gypsies kids as I have and they do know them, they will come across that they are normal kids.
What do you think about this I'm telling you? My partner and many other people have told me that I'm a naive thinking in this way but I feel better believing in people niceness and their capacity to change and improve.
Did you know that the way other races, who are not Black, view us in terms of our race and sexuality for men and women was set up on purpose by "The Powers That Be?"
I find it incredibly tragic that "not knowing that someone is a gypsie
appears "normal" in your country...."
That is the same reason LGBT(lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) people stay "in the closet..."
That is why "artists"(whack-jobs) like Nicki Minaj alters and modifies herself to
appear "normal"(white/Caucasian).
That is why black girls continue to perm, relax, and press their hair and pathologically pass this shit down to their ****in daughters and their daughters and their daughters...
That is why Asians(self-hating ones) get expensive surgery done to their eyes known as corrective eye surgery to
appear "normal"(white/Caucasian) and yet they Black Face us like the old minstrel shows!!!
Why the hell does everyone wanna be white to be "normal?"
Cause racism
and sexism are very much alive and well, similarly connected, and conceived to destroy the deceived! Best believe that fact!:thumbdown::thumbdown::thumbdown: