there aren't that MANY single folks out there

lifesnotfair

lifesnotfair

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You know, its funny, because people say that there are a lot of single individuals, however, where are these people? quite literally everyone that i am around, is either married, in a relationship, or dating.. WTF?? how do these people meet? seriously, i can't seem to meet or find anyone who would give me the time of day.

Well i guess it doesn't matter, women don't seem to want to be around me, attitude or not.
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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Sorry you feel so badly Lifesnotfair.... maybe reading this thread might help just a little?

Dont you just sometimes need someone?

By the way, it 10 pm! :wink:
 
FruitLooPs

FruitLooPs

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It's also often dependant on age, I know being in my teen years there are alot of single girls around. Then again dating doesnt seem to be an issue at all for most of them, it seems like a different person each week for some.

But if I was mid 30's or whatever I'd probably find that a substantial amount of people I knew would be in some kind of relationship.

But there are always other single people out there, probably in the same situation as you right now thinking that there is nobody out there for them and its all BS.

Like has been said 100's of times before, clubs and things - hobbies etc are often good ways of finding people. Singles events could be an option maybe if thats your cup of tea. SA/SP does make all of that kind of thing that much harder though huh, still its a more or less sure way to find someone eventually. :)
 
Cutegal

Cutegal

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Well lifesnotfair, I think maybe you need to calm down abit and maybe think along more romantic lines, women are not objects they are people too, try making freinds with women and having women as freinds it may give you abit more insight into what makes them tick, you may like what you find.

With the attitude you have now you really are not going to get anywhere.
Be warm be freindly, dont expect marraige just because a girl smiles at you, as the song goes 'love was not an easy game to play', it isnt for any of us, dont think its just you, you just have to change your tactics.

I'm not sure about the last posters thread and doing bodybuilding, I find that kind of thing unappealing and much prefer 'normal' build men. Though if you do it to help depression thats different.

Take care

Rosie
 
lifesnotfair

lifesnotfair

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i don't think that you guys are getting it..people are saying that there are lots of single people out there, however, everywhere i go, i see people together, even at work, they are all married or in relationships, what i am saying is that there isn't that MANY single people...
 
Horatio

Horatio

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I know what you mean lifeisnotfair. I used to be actively involved in the church and there it was even worse, most people were in either a serious relationship or married by age 23 and some I knew married as young as 17! Its weird to think that so many people out there my age (22) are married already and Im yet to go on a date :|
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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well, crash, I remember you posting a topic a while ago that was VERY similar. And my gut feeling tells me its you!
 
Yossarian

Yossarian

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I AM SPARTA...CRASHMODEM.....no I'm not really :oops: So what if someone changes their name? Though I'm not saying anyone has.

Anyway I don't really meet many people these days but the few I do meet seem to be mostly coupled. Still just gotta keep searching I guess :(
 
loucat

loucat

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there are loads of single people out there, i'm single, ok i know loads of people who are in couples but i don't get hung up on it, there's more to life than being with someone. i've been in relationships and i've ben rejected but who hasn't? personally i think it's your attitude that puts people off, you can be very negative at time, sorry if that offends you
 
Remus

Remus

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yup LOu's right, theres nothing wrong with being single, being more positive is a boon too, I just ended a relationship that just didnt work, I'd rather be single than in a bad relationship.

Work on your good traits mate and bring them to the forefront, I see the most unworthy of people with girlfreinds, I'm sure you are much nicer than them :)
 
Remus

Remus

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I myself prefer strong women, not because I need looking after, I like people who stand up to me because in a relationship, I'm quite dominant, which sounds kinda weird for such a shy SP person (yup I dont get it either?)
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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So what if someone changes their name?
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Your right, so fu--ing WHAT!!... nobody was trying to handcuff him and take him to jail or send him straight to -ell, kwz & I just had a HUNCH that the two nicks were the same person--- THAT'S ALL. geeeeeeesh
 
Yossarian

Yossarian

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:oops: Sorry guest, it just came across like you were pushing the point a bit when he had said he wasn't. I wasn't having a go, just kinda supporting peoples right to change their name. I read back and I misinterpreted it I guess. Didn't mean to cause offense. Plus it was an opportunity to make a crap spartacus gag.
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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'So-kay Yossarian.... this stuff is to be expected at a forum like this. We tend to be a bit too self concious and overly self defensive.
The spartacus gag was too crappy, :D I smiled until I saw the 'so what' stuff.... then I thought to myself, 'yikes, was I condeming the dude?'
 
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