The Spouse/Partner/Significant Other Venting Thread

[Worthless]

Greeting to all who dared to be in a relationship with another human being.
Got an issue with your S/P/SO (Spouse/Partner/Significant Other) but have no one to vent it to? Does Anxiety got your tongue and can't voice your feelings to friends, family, or even your shrink? (you know you have one)
Look no further. Stretch your arms, crack your knuckles and let that keyboard clack away because everyone needs to have somebody to turn to even when they're all alone in a crowd.

 

[Odo]

Okay, I have one.

My wife is always taking a permanent marker and drawing a bandito mustache on my face while I sleep. This morning I saw that she was smiling at me all through breakfast-- I didn't think anything of it because we had a pretty nice go of alien sex prisoner last night, so I thought it was just afterglow.

Anyways, when I got to work Pablo took one look at me and fired my ***! This is seriously the fifth job I've lost because of this shit... I don't think she understands just how serious of an issue it is.

The bills keep piling up and I need to get my cat spayed... if that little slut gets pregnant again I'm going to be stepping on kittens every time I go to the bathroom.

Oh, and one more thing-- she has this annoying habit of joining the sites she knows I visit and then posting threads encouraging people to complain about their spouses in order to catch me in the act... I don't know why she doesn't trust me.

 

[Agent_Violet]

wth?

Is spw really the place to have a domestic spat? People who have to resort to such childish things shouldn't have been permitted to be married in the first place.
It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high.

 

[Odo]

Uhhh... my post was a joke.
I'm not married at all... I haven't even been in a relationship for a loooong time.

 

[MBinMN]

Oh chiming in...
My husband claims to understand how I feel yet there is no way he could understand. He also tends to use my social anxiety against me when there are actual assholes out there who are cruel to me. He tells me its all in my head. I hate that!

 

[Section_31]

I wish I could post what I want to say....but I cant.

 

[coyote]

twice married, twice divorced... too much to post here

no complaints about my current significant other

except that she refuses to marry me

i suppose i can't blame her

 

[MikeyC]

wth?

Is spw really the place to have a domestic spat? People who have to resort to such childish things shouldn't have been permitted to be married in the first place.
It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high.

I have to agree with this. Venting problems here can be helpful, but it won't make the problem disappear. This thread will encourage gossip about others.

If your partner is doing something you don't like, talk to them about it. I understand some conversations of that nature are not easy to bring up, but communication between the two of you is the best way to resolve any issues. :thumbup:

 

[jc972]

No complaints about my old lady, she's awesome. Apart from the two kids and one due in September it still feels like we're 18 :inlove: She is the best thing that could have happened to me. I actually look up to her and I'd tell anybody that.

 

[Worthless]

I apologize if my topic of discussion has caused others to feel uncomfortable, i was simply trying to find a way to feel my voice and opinion mattered and hopefully find a few others who have or are currently experiencing the same frustrations as i.
For the record, my husband has not posted nor visited this site. He wouldnt because he doesnt believe that disorders, like the ones discussed in this site, are legitimate. We are simply making excuses for running away from situations that arw uncomfortable and need to stop whining and grow up.

That wonderful viewpoint was before he left fir afghanistan for two years and returned a stranger who cant stand to be in the same room with me for 10 minutes. He was diagnosed with PTSD and for the last six months has altinated between sitting on the couch playing Call of Duty and leaving to god know where, because ge doesnt tell me.
.........
But your right. This is not a forum topic, just a gossip about the people in our lives....

BTW Odo, LOVED your post. I couldnt stop laughing after my initial "OMG, he thinks im HIS wife or... is this MY husbad?!?! Thanks for the humor, i forgot how great it feels to laugh.

 

[shyguy8513]

dared to be in a relationship with another human being.
.

every time i try, i fail during my first attempts so i quit & the another human being starts to insult me, i really try hard but i can't i live in hell all the time by thinking about my shameful attempts & the insults after them. i got told that my mother didn't love or you don't have anything to give, ouchhhhh

 

[shyguy8513]

Anxiety got your tongue and can't voice your feelings to friends, family, or even your shrink?

all the time & this makes people ashamed from me, disrespect me disgusted of me & feel sorry for me. i get told all the time that i'm sick & have to get help.

 

[Remus]

No complaints here, anyone having to put up with me deserves a medal XD

 

[Pacific_Loner]

BTW Odo, LOVED your post. I couldnt stop laughing after my initial "OMG, he thinks im HIS wife or... is this MY husbad?!?! Thanks for the humor, i forgot how great it feels to laugh.

Lol it made me laugh too, I don't know why everyone is taking this thread so seriously. For what it's worth I thought your thread was a good idea, being in a relationship can be very frustrating sometimes and having a place to vent can be a good way to evacuate some steam away from your partner and calm down, and maybe have some feedback from others point of views. I don't see that as gossips.

 

[Dinosaur]

Lol it made me laugh too, I don't know why everyone is taking this thread so seriously. For what it's worth I thought your thread was a good idea, being in a relationship can be very frustrating sometimes and having a place to vent can be a good way to evacuate some steam away from your partner and calm down, and maybe have some feedback from others point of views. I don't see that as gossips.

Agree 100% :thumbup: