Talking or not?

ioanna

Well-known member
I started saying some things i was thinking about..some people do understand,some others no..even if i want to talk i can never say what i really want or feel..i try to hide it..its confusing..only some people i trust can really know what i feel..
so should i talk or not?
 

ioanna

Well-known member
i know..i want to tell so many things..its like hiding all your life,people dont know me..
 

LucidPanda

Active member
Personally I think that most people can be trusted with information, however that doesn't neccessary mean that they want to hear about it.

Fundamental questions to ask yourself.
Why hide?
How will they harm you?
 

ioanna

Well-known member
Wy hide it?Because i trusted people and they made fun of me..because they didnt understand..thats why..
 

Remus

Moderator
Staff member
I think it depends on who you talk to and trust, some people really cannot understand problems or how to advise on them (even I struggle myself)
 

ioanna

Well-known member
yes but sometimes we need people to understand us,especially those who are near us..
 

JonnyD

Well-known member
it's hard to talk, even more when your depressed , because when you're very sad the bad things always seems to matter more then the good things... Which is a false perception.

I think you should talk, you should talk with poeple that you trust , even if it means sometimes feeling disapointment.

Nobody is perfect and many times you'll run into people that are wrong. not because they're bad, i think you should try to accept what people speak to you with a absolutelly honest view - they are really right? it's not my problems thinking in my place?

actually we try to find poeple with the same problems then us (this very site is a fair example), it's alright , we all need to be undertood .

and have you ever tryid to speak with yourself, not screaming in despair. but trying to be very very honest and sincere, admiting all your feelings and everything that bothers you? it's not the solution to everything but it helped me.
 

ioanna

Well-known member
of course i tried a lot of times to talk to myself..now i got a decision and i hope i can do it..i wrote it in other post''a song that made me cry''
 

JonnyD_

Well-known member
ioanna said:
of course i tried a lot of times to talk to myself..now i got a decision and i hope i can do it..i wrote it in other post''a song that made me cry''

you've been sincere? about what you feel, about what makes you feel like it, about what you think?

i'm not telling that you dont, perhaps you do! but i lived a lie for 20 years, i never been thurthful to myself till... yesterday!

maybe it's not for you , but you're trying :) an that is what matters!
 

ioanna

Well-known member
i think.. :? i dont know,just wanna fight this feelings..i know its difficult but i ll try..
 
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