Suffer With Bullying

Annie13

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Im Only 13 Years Old and at this age i should be enjoying my teenage years but im not at this precise moment. I was bullied when i was 5 years old, came back with black eyes and everything, but this isn't as bad thank god. But it brings memories back.It all started because of some girl her name is Lauren and she goes to a different school to me, and someone posted on her facebook from my best mate's account that she was a sl**, and everyone blamed it on me. But it truly wasn't me! Me and my best mate were fine until one friday, were i stayed round hers. And the next morning i left it was all good, and then rumours were going round that i had sex with my best mate's kind of boyfriend, how could i.... 1. i was at her house, 2. im only 13 and im not stupid.So now my best mate believed all these rumours, that friendship disappeared ::(: So now i get stones chucked at me by BOYS!! Name Calling... People threatening to beat me up.... People writing things about me in the girls toilets.... And of course for this Lauren girl she came to my house with about 34 of her friends, and tried to get me out of my house, down my alley, to beat me up, she is in year 8, my year. And she had year 11's with her, year 10's,9's,8's & year 7's.And People are threatening to egg my house,This girl stood there with my mum right next to me because she would not leave my mum, don't blame her. This girl was like did you put the thing on facebook, i said " no i didn't, i swear " , she asked if this other girl did it, i said " i Don't know, all i know is that she went on my best mate's facebook to change her password ". Trying to act all hard she said " i'll go do this other girl then " , after she goes i got nothing against you, i mean WTH! so now i suffer a lot, i don't like going out of my house because im to scared to.And i have been through a lot aswell my dad is an alcoholic, my mum lost her baby, so i self-harmed being honest wasn't the best idea of my life, but at that time i thought it was but now i know it wasn't because i have to live with scars all my life.
 
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annie please please ring the AA (alco annon) to at least be able to talk to someone and unload about your dad .


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your only two years older than my little girl and this is heartbreaking. Emily has also had a terrible time with bullies, your not alone !!!

This is a cruel world we live in ,but don't think everyone is the same , take some comfort from knowing that there are kind and good people out there and your life wont always be like this.

Your mum is grieving , and will eventually get back to normal , I have lost babies as well and it hurts so bad , but she will come out the other side of this I assure you.

Do you have a school council/rep/senior you could turn to to talk ?

have you heard of sure start or womens groups ? they will also be able to give you a little support.

You have the scars from self harming now , and recognise it was a bad idea...but you cant torture yourself over it now ..whats done is done and you just have to view them as a part of your life that hurt and these are the scars to show for it.

please try to turn to someone local who you can talk to and and unload

(((((((((((((((((((bug hugs for you annie))))))))))))))))))))))
 

market.garden

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Yeah I agree with fudgy, as hard as things are now they won't be like this forever. I think it could help you talking to someone on some of the helplines posted above, sometimes when everything seems hopeless and too much, just talking to a professional can make all the difference and help you get a load off your mind.
 

Annie13

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Yeh i have a school counciller and an outside counciller dont worry, well i dont wish bullying upon anyway and i hope your little girl gets threw it , just like i will hopefully.Thankyou for your advice ( big hugs to you to ) x x
 

ryan2022

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Annie,

I know how hard things can be when your younger. I've been in some bad situations.

Things WILL get better for you.

I would seriously consider deleting the facebook account. Keep your head up high, and walk with confidence. If you have to speak to the people that are picking on you, do it with conviction. They may talk back, but bullies always go for an easy target!

13 is a tough age, and I hope things get better for you. All the best, things will improve, just get the ball rolling and stand up straight.
 
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