Strip Clubs.

Rheves

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So I have been going to them a lot lately. Hope no one thinks me a pervert lol. I have to say, I think its helping with the lack of human contact. Maybe even helping to become more comfortable around women. Anyone else have this experience?
 

Rheves

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Yep, i got my first lap dance last time i went. Best 20 bucks ever! lol. They say a dollar gets you nothing, i say it gets a lot.
 

DaaaBulls

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I've been to strips clubs but I never really feel comfortable there unless I am piss ass drunk. The girls are hot though..
 

2Crowded

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Personaly i have never been to one ever..been asked to go way back when before by friends but i always knew I wasent going to go to place like that.... I have always thought of that kind of place as having a negetive effect on society..not to mention degrading to women....not only that it seems pointless to me...all them women want is your money...so in affect you are thier paycheck & it isent like you are seeing something special like it would be in a one on one situation between two people who really care about each other..those women get goobered on & seen by everyone who comes through the door...kinda always seemed gross to me & icky. Id say social skills with women would be better off being learned in public 1 normal person at a time with thier clothes on..since generaly most women you meet in the real world arent naked... but thats my 2 cents.
 

Kien

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I wouldn't find strip clubs interresting, almost no females has tits worth looking at.
 

slimjim119

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Very true 2Crowded. I've only been to a strip club 2 times in my life. And they were for bachelor parties. My brother-in-law and cousin. I was kind of forced into going. I had a good time after I relaxed with a few drinks. It's not a place I would normally go to on my own.
 

DASwife

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I personally like them. Something about the fact that I am paying the girl makes me feel more in control of the situation.

Though I will agree with some of the other commenters that it will never make up for the real thing. Its a start tho...

On the plus side it always works to get my husband in a good mood if I mention I wanna go to the stripclub lol!
 

Satine

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Well, whatever works for you. I've not been to one before but did fancy trying it out for a while. But I knew even then that such places are very expensive, so didn't. Damn my ultra-sensible principles!

My other half went, though, and he said it was fun (he went with a group from work). He didn't buy a dance, as the dancers who turned up expected £20 from each person in the group, which was frankly prohibitive. But he eventually got bored of being whispered to, 'do you want a dance?' and left.
 
I been there a couple of times 2 years ago. Because I feeled quite good, because I was drunk. People go there to sit and watch the girls. I feeled quite comfortable around there. Nobody is looking at you, everyone is looking at them :) In normal club you have to go talk to some strangers or you will look odd. And I agree with 2Crowded. The more money you give the more you get. It really won't change anything. I don't think it helped me with womens. Maybe it a little bit helped me around friends.
 

sabbath9

Banned
Its at times like these the great heaven knows
That we wish we had not so many clothes
So lets loosen up with a playful tease
Like all lovers did through the centuries

Were just following ancient history
If I strip for you will you strip for me?
Were just following ancient history
If I strip for you will you strip for me?
Uh-huh-huh

When it gets so hot the end of the day
You may find your clothes getting in the way
If a pretty dress hides your true desire
Fold it nice and slow, throw it on the fire

We dont need to see what the butler saw
Or a mirrored room with a mirrored floor
All those sneaky looks gazing down on you
Are no substitute for our rendezvous

If you think its cheap or a bit risque
Please dont say a word Ill just slip away
I am not a man who believes in lies
Like an octopus with big x-ray eyes

Dont freeze up girl, youre looking quite a sight
Be generous, I want it all tonight
 

recluse

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I agree with 2 crowded. They don't appeal to me at all, it's just so seedy isn't it. These girls who do this for a living are someone's daughter, girlfriend, wife, sister, o'r whatever and if a loved one of mine did this as a job i'd be really upset.
 

recluse

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I personally like them. Something about the fact that I am paying the girl makes me feel more in control of the situation.

Though I will agree with some of the other commenters that it will never make up for the real thing. Its a start tho...

On the plus side it always works to get my husband in a good mood if I mention I wanna go to the stripclub lol!

You go to these places, to look at girls? Unless you are gay which you are clearly not, as you mentioned you had a husband, i'm confused!:confused:
 

Nicholas

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I went once, and I thought it was going to be... good, fun, interesting, before going in. Then when I was in, I realized how sad it was. I mean, I was kind of shocked, because I am a man, men are supposed to like those things and not be sensitive at all, yet I couldn't help sensing the fake happiness there was in the air, as the speaker shouted "topless!" and these gorgeous girls showed every old creepy pig their jugs. Or letting them suck them. They couldn't have been happy, yet they had to smile for everyone's entertainment.
 

DASwife

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You go to these places, to look at girls? Unless you are gay which you are clearly not, as you mentioned you had a husband, i'm confused!:confused:

No, I'm bi lol. And both me and my husband are followers of left handed Tantra, so sex isn't seen as a shameful thing for us, in any form. Also, nakedness isn't as big a deal for us, as it is for many westerners, so we don't really see strippers as any different than waitresses or anything... in both situations you're working for tips, just selling different things!

But that's just us being crazy pagans, and definitely not the "norm" I suppose. :)
 

thor01

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Nope never have so far in my life. I can see positive and negative sides. I just feel that it would be kind of torture in a way having them dance in front of you, when you know you can't touch or anything, you just watch, and then leave, wanting sex even more. If you were going to pay for something like this would it not make more sense to pay for an escort, that way you get the whole thing, but again I see positives and negatives about that too. And can understand that sometimes you might want to just watch.
 

this_portrait

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Oh, hell no. I wouldn't even go within 20 feet of a strip club. I think even if I was a guy, I would feel so uncomfortable going in one, because I feel uncomfortable around the opposite sex enough already. =/
 
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