Have you guys ever noticed that often when a girl gives you an opportunity to say something to her and you hold back, she basically stops taking you seriously? I was at this concert the other night and I went up to the bar and the girl next to me gave me a smile. I smiled back but didnt say anything, and then I looked at her again and she gave me this real odd look. Another time I sat next to a girl at a get together at a friends and the same thing happened except she crossed her arms and grimaced the next time I looked at her. This often leads to pretty awkward convo when I get around to initiating...cant us shy guys get a friggin minute to think of somethin to say? Im not terrible at talking to girls but I'm very slow to start usually and I fear this is destroying many opportunities for me....is it that these girls think I'm rejecting them by not immediately saying something?? I don't want to generalize but this actually tends to happen to me more than any other interaction with girls. Maybe these girls are more sensitive to "rejection" than I am....