williamreinsch
Well-known member
I have to keep it impersonal in case anyone I know reads this.
I have someone in my life who won't let something go and is causing grief to everyone around them as a result. The actual problem is trivial and was over a week ago, it's something you forget about it. This person has dragged it on and sulked mainly in the company of others (to make them feel guilty).
Someone very close to me is being effected by them, and they do so much for the person and everyone else and are having to swallow the shit they are giving out.
I feel angrier everyday because this person is still dragging it out. I fear I won't be able to hold it in if it carries on. People tell me I need to stay calm because I tend to let everything out very angrily and passionately which tends to just exacerbate things.... spilling out the truth is not always a good thing.
So should I let it out or keep silent? Or something else?
I have someone in my life who won't let something go and is causing grief to everyone around them as a result. The actual problem is trivial and was over a week ago, it's something you forget about it. This person has dragged it on and sulked mainly in the company of others (to make them feel guilty).
Someone very close to me is being effected by them, and they do so much for the person and everyone else and are having to swallow the shit they are giving out.
I feel angrier everyday because this person is still dragging it out. I fear I won't be able to hold it in if it carries on. People tell me I need to stay calm because I tend to let everything out very angrily and passionately which tends to just exacerbate things.... spilling out the truth is not always a good thing.
So should I let it out or keep silent? Or something else?