sexual frustration

Socially_Retarded

Active member
This is just a venting sesh about my inability to seduce girls into having sex with me... I have this feeling that being with a sexual partner would relieve me of so much stress. Im an absolute dork when it comes to talking to girls, like last night i bumped into this girl that i knew from school, (short of calling her a slut, ive heard some legendary stories about this girls promiscuousness) anyway she invited me around her place and she was dropping major hints but i somehow managed to talk my way out of it even though i really wanted too. I walked away wishing that id had some alcohol to break out of my shell a little, all i can say is that it was an epic fail and that if it were recorded on video im sure it would have made it onto this blog http://failblog.org/.

Is anyone else sexually frustrated?
 

Dave_McFadden

Well-known member
I've been through this enough times that it frustrates me even reading about it.

Socially_Retarded said:
but i somehow managed to talk my way out of it even though i really wanted too.
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On the plus side, you may be thinking about this one day and realize that maybe, subconsciously, you really didn't want to have anything to do with her. After all, if her promiscuity is "legendary", as you say, then she might come with various diseases that you want nothing to do with. At the very least, it's got to be in the back of your mind somewhere, and if not, it should be. You might be sitting in a bar 20 years from now reminiscing with a mutual acquaintance, and he rattles off a list of guys she infected. And you're not on the list. Yay.

That's called "positive thinking".

Socially_Retarded said:
Is anyone else sexually frustrated?

I think most of us are on this board. At least, most of the guys. I don't know about the girls.
 

Socially_Retarded

Active member
Riiya your probably right, random sex is meaningless but its as if theres a pressure to have sex so you can conform into being normal. Maybe its the overemphasis on sex society places on us through advertising and stuff so that if you dont have it your seen as an outcast. I guess sex is just hyped up and superficial, but on the other hand its still something really important to us.
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

Well-known member
Do you want just a quick booy call or an actual relationship? Because, it's easy to FIND places (that are legal!) and well (illegal too sure =) I guess like the situation you found yourself in. Just gotta collect the signs and put your own out there. And then follow where that leads... Trouble is for SA to do that... our signs get all twisted and FUBAR'd
 

Tab

Well-known member
Fuck I agree with you 100%. If I was drunk while I was having an encounter with a girl I'd have lost my virginity 100x by now. I don't know why I feel like such a goody good when I'm sober. Right now I'm pretty hammered and I just want to fuck something. What does it matter if I lose my virginity to someone I love? I know for a fact I won't. So why even try? Might as well be drunk and have sex, at least I'll have done it! I think after I do have sex for the first time it will relieve a lot of anxieties I have for women. My biggest concerns are I'm not good enough and I don't look as good as most men. But fuck that, if I'm drunk. If she's willing, I'll do it!!
 

Socially_Retarded

Active member
a quick booy call? lol nar i dont play for that team.. id like a booty call to relieve tension but also a relationship that gives a sense of meaning, the ultimate would be a soul mate
 
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